Long-distance relationships can be complicated to handle, and when your long-distance boyfriend starts ignoring you it can be even more confusing.
It’s hard to know what to do when your boyfriend isn’t responding to your calls, texts, or emails.
This blog post will help you determine what might be happening and what you can do about it. Not only that you know exactly:
- The obvious signs that you will see when your boyfriend is starting to ignore you.
- The main reasons why he might be ignoring you.
and many more…
Let’s dive in.
7 Signs Of Ignoring
Has he stopped responding to your calls? maybe he starting to be physical distance.
These are just a few signs he is showing when he begins to ignore you. Below we have a list of signs that you should be aware of:
Sign#1: He will practice the radio silent technique
The moment he stops taking your calls, and not replying to your text just assume he is ignoring you.
This is usually the first sign that most people see which can result in any relationship being ruined.
Sign#2: He will be failing to make eye-to-eye contact with you
If you want a healthy relationship then having eye-to-eye conservation is the most important part when it comes to building trust with your loved one.
The moment he fails this test this will indicate that he is beginning to ignore you.
Sign#3: He will begin canceling plans each time you ask him out
If your boyfriend starts to cancel weekly hang out with you or he might not even show up each time you make plans to hang out then you will get to the conclusion that he is ignoring you.
He may be doing that because maybe he is under stress. or maybe he attempting to avoid an issue he has.
Sign#4: He will physically distance himself from you
Physical avoidance is the most common sign that you will see if he is ignoring you.
He will reduce the amount of time he shows physical affection towards you and continues to pull away slowly becoming an emotional and cold relationship.
Sign#5: He will continue to lie and give you excuses each time you want to hang out with him
Everyone lies from time to time, but if he continues to lie and give you excuses each you want to spend time with him shows that he is beginning to ignore you.
Sign#6: He will socially distance himself from you
Social distancing can also be a sign that your boyfriend is ignoring you. This can happen when he talks to everyone except for you showing that he is avoiding you.
Just say something to him if he responds in a quick and curt it shows that he is ignoring you.
Sign#7: He will give you short disengaged answers when talking, texting, or calling you.
If you want to find out if your boyfriend is ignoring try this tactic everything you start a conversation you must notice his attitude towards you
if you see that he is uninterested and give a short disengaged reply it can be a sign that he is ignoring you.
Reasons Your Long-Distance Boyfriend Is Ignoring You
Below we gather the 4 common reasons why your boyfriend may be ignoring you:
Reason #1: He May Be Busy
One thing that hurt the most is being ignored by your boyfriend or girlfriend.
But there is something you need to understand before getting to the conclusion that my boyfriend does not love me anymore.
Not replying to your text, emails, or calls, does not mean he does not care about you anymore,
maybe he is overwhelmed by his lifestyle, or maybe has been preoccupied with work or maybe he is dealing with health issues you will never know.
Maybe he has no time to commit himself to the relationship right now.
Don’t worry he still cares for you in his heart and mind eventually he will get back to you when he is ready to commit to the relationship.
Reason #2:He Feels Unappreciated
Everyone loves to be appreciated but if you don’t appreciate his present each time he is around you then that can be the main reason why he is ignoring you.
Try to show appreciation for every small or big thing he does for you, it can be a flirty thank you. Doing that will have your relationship healthy making wanting you more even if he is far away from you.
Reason #3:He Doesn’t Feel Close Enough
Another one of the top reasons he is ignoring you he doesn’t feel close enough.
Honestly, guys don’t love it when their girl is a thousand kilometers away from them. Don’t blame him when he does not reply to your text because he finds it difficult to show any physical affection or make you happy. After all, he is not around you.
Reason #4:He Is Afraid Of Commitment
This is one reason that most guys stay away from long-distance relationships because they are afraid of commitment. To put it, in other words, they are afraid of being controlled.
Honestly, Guys value freedom more than women, they prefer being alone because they think that they are not lovable and also they don’t feel like they reach that stage to take on the responsibilities of a relationship.
Ending up ignoring you and pulling away.
What To Do
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Below we gathered 3 helpful tips that you try to stop him from ignoring you and keep him committed in a long-distance relationship:
Tip#1:Communicate
Having an honest talk with him is the best thing to do when your boyfriend ignores you in a long-distance relationship.
The fact is that guys find it difficult to communicate with their love partner and they usually don’t realize that being silent is hating your feelings don’t blame them.
If he continues to ignore you just reach out to him with a text or call that you miss him and would love to just take a minute of your time to talk to you if he does not reply just do the same and give him a cold shoulder.
Tip#2:Show Him Appreciation
If you want your boyfriend to commit more fully to you and your relationship then there is a simple trick you can do right away which is showing him some appreciation for his efforts in protecting and caring for the woman he cares for.
In other words, guys love being appreciated like an everyday superhero, this will result in him wanting to be around you and you will always be in his mind even when he is not physically there.
Tip#3:Spend Quality Time Together
By spending quality time together you are getting a chance to heal your relationship.
Being absent makes the heart grow fonder. So need to try to arrange a hangout for just the two of you.
By spending quality time together you are giving time to know about yourself, your likes and dislikes making a big difference showing him the investment you have towards him and the relationship.
To Wrap Things Up
Long-distance relationships can be difficult, and when your long-distance boyfriend starts ignoring you it can be even more confusing,
but it doesn’t have to be after all if two people truly love each very much they is always a way out.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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