Hey guys, women care what you look like!
They’re attracted to a lot of things. It’s not over if you’re skinny, bald, or under six feet tall. But you can score a lot of points with women by improving your appearance.
It doesn’t have to be difficult either.
There are plenty of subtle style tweaks you can make that women will notice when you talk to them.
So, let’s explore what they are.
1. Buy clothes that fit you well
You don’t have to buy expensive brands to stand out as a guy who dresses well.
The biggest upgrade you can make to boost your appearance is to buy clothes that fit you well.
A well-fitted shirt looks great and highlights your muscles. With a baggy shirt, you’ll look like a regular guy even if you’re at the gym all the time. Wearing tight clothes is a bad look that will make you uncomfortable, especially if you’re rocking a beer gut.
Consider investing in a tailor to alter your existing shirts to fit you better. It’s not as expensive as you may think.
2. Add a splash of colour
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If you want to stand out, dare to wear bright colors that reflect a bit of your personality.
You can play with bright blues to contrast with your cool and confident demeanour, while reds, yellows and oranges can signal an adventurous and daring personality.
With that said, don’t lose sight of using colors that favor your complexion. I avoid whites and pale shades because they make me look like a ghost.
3. Experiment with accessories
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Accessories are a great way to express your unique style — and communicate to the world that you take pride in your appearance.
Expensive jewellery has always been a classy way to communicate style and status.
However, you can impress women with cheaper and more unique items too. Experiment with rings, necklaces, hats and sunglasses.
As well as looking great, they can be perfect conversation-starters for women who want to talk to you.
4. Clean your nails and shoes
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It’s a given that men should wear clean clothes and take care of their basic hygiene
However, a lot of dudes forget to pay attention to their nails and their shoes.
Women notice these small details. They want men who present themselves neatly.
Scruffy shoes and dirty nails are red flags to a lot of women. How are you supposed to take care of them if you can’t even take care of your own hands?
5. Splash the cash on a decent haircut
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A high-quality modern haircut can make you stand out as a trendy and fashionable gentleman.
Pricier hairdressers will be able to recommend a modern style that suits your face and highlights your best features. They’ll also spend more time adding style to your trim.
Meanwhile, cheaper barbers tend to be limited to basic styles. They’ll also cut corners so they can save time and serve more customers.
6. Grow a beard and keep it well-trimmed
A well-kept beard can revolutionise a man’s appearance. You can transform from an average guy to a masculine warrior, or vice-versa depending on your facial hair preferences.
Plenty of women go wild for a well-kept beard. With that said, a poorly cut beard with crumbs from your breakfast will send them running for the hills.
7. Wear something unique so she doesn’t forget you
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Beautiful women get so much attention from men nowadays. You might be able to win their attention, but leaving a lasting impact can be quite a challenge.
A unique item of clothing can help her remember you over all the guys she met at the bar.
It communicates that you’re not afraid to stand out and rock your own style. Plus, it gives daring women an excuse to start a conversation with you.
This strategy is called ‘peacocking’ and was popularised by pick-up artists in the early 2000s, but it works just as well with regular guys.
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These style tweaks will improve women’s perception of you more than you believe, but only if you also approach them with confidence and make an emotional impact.
As such, my number one fashion tip of all is to wear clothes that make you feel GREAT in your own skin.
If you struggle to capture women’s attention or make a lasting impression, my book Big Dick Energy could help.
It features 12 powerful exercises to help you unleash your natural masculine energy and effortlessly attract amazing women.
You can learn more about the book by clicking here or watching the video below.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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