Quitting smoking has so many benefits. It is so expensive to smoke, the savings are enormous, even if you stay “healthy.” Most people who never smoke, and people who still smoke probably don’t understand the amount of time and effort it takes to smoke. It is more than just the act of “smokin’ a butt,” there is a whole set of logistical challenges facing smokers. For one thing you need cigarettes, (hardly a smoker without some of those) and something to light them with, (non smokers who only need to remember keys, wallet, watch, and a cell phone are rookies) and a decent place to enjoy the comfort of a serene smoke, which is becoming more of a challenge all the time. So, the benefits are manifold, one unexpected bonus was the friends I made.
There are a couple who deserve special recognition. Gale, and Susan, we were members of an online support community to help us in our efforts to quit, and we have just become friends.
In fact Susan and Gale were my first Facebook friends, I had joined Facebook several months prior because I wanted to join this particular fan group, for my beloved KIN 2M phone, but it was filled with superior, smug people and I quickly ignored them (actually, I am still trying to decide whether Facebook is a huge waste of time or the most underutilized form of entertainment, keep an eye on Life Explained for more in the near future) so it was nice to have a friend, and all of the sudden I had two friends, of course now I am in the thirties, but, I still remember when it was only two.
Susan (who is from Columbus) has actually had beers with my wife and I, on more than one occasion, and we are considering her for the exalted position of “drinking buddy,” on a probationary basis of course. Even though she is a genius, MENSA member, who can do amazing things with Microsoft Excel she still enjoys a good pirate joke. Hey, Susan, what does a pirate do on the weekend? Yarrrrrdwork. I don’t really know if she likes pirate jokes or not, but she has a wonderful sense of humor and has been to a Grateful Dead concert and that is cool.
Gale (who is from North Carolina, Scotland, Germany) is a fearless, on the ground reporter, for this very blog, and was willing to take on the Evil Barbie Empire to get the truth to you and save the world, too. She tackles plastic women bent on world domination with the same gusto as German noun declension. An enthusiastic world traveler, Gale has over 300 cities dotted on her world travel map, (a lot of them are in foreign places, filled with foreigners) and a lot of that was done through air travel, which we all know is crazy. And she has a tattoo, which she recently had upgraded, another act of bravery.
Anyway, thank you, both. In the words of Jerry Garcia, “what a long, strange trip it’s been.” But, thanks to you it has never been dull.
There would be pictures here, but they still need to sign the consent form and have it notarized, and air parceled to our secret location. Not really, I am going to email them and ask for permission.
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Originally published on Life, Explained
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