Question: I tried everything to break this so called cycle. I have looked deep within, I have listened to my “little me”, I have even tried dating the opposite of who I normally date but no matter what, I am still attracted to the same type of woman! I just can’t change that. There’s just no attraction for any type of woman but the wrong woman for me.
Answer: I honor how far you’ve come in the work that you’ve done. And I honor that you tried everything that you know to break this so-called cycle. You sound pretty frustrated by confirming that you can’t change your situation or that you can’t attract a woman who’s right for you.
What is that quote, whether you think you can or think you can’t, either way you’re right. You didn’t ask a question, love… So if you’re unwilling to consider a different point of view or be open to another possibility, nothing’s going to change my friend.
But I pretended that you asked me a question 🙂 shall we play?
I imagine that you asked me, What’s it gonna take to change this? What’s it gonna take for me to attract the right kind of woman for me?
As smart accomplished conscious people, the idea that we have a blind spot that we can’t figure out ourselves, is highly frustrating, yes? And yet quite often the next step before a jump in evolution is a willingness to be humble, a willingness to not know, a willingness to be out of control, a willingness to ask for help, a willingness to return to being a student…
Sometimes it takes quite the life experience to get us on our knees to surrender and ask for help, ask to be held, ask for guidance… Be it cancer or a bankruptcy or a nasty break up… Or like you, and inability to break a cycle that’s keeping you alone.
Yet let me tell you, as soon as you’re willing to surrender, your whole life opens up. Life isn’t about good and right and achievements and perfection… Life is about experience and the ability to love ourselves no matter what our circumstances or what people say about us.
So clearly something is going on that you can’t see even though you’ve done your best, that I bet I could see. 😉 Let’s be clear, I can’t see my blind spots either! But I am gifted with a genius to be able to see others blind spots and tenderly potently, heal, shift and change them in a lasting expansive way.
Yes it takes great humility and courage to apply for a complementary strategy session with me and let me love you. It take something deep inside to say yes to my invitation to guide you on a deep transformational journey HOME with me.
Given that you mentioned a ‘little me,’ I’m thinking you’ve been following me for a while, but if you haven’t, please except my invitation to my complementary workshop coming up this week at www.AllanaPratt.com/soul-shaking
And if you’ve already done that, or if you’ve been following me for a while, and you just wanted to test me out and see how I would respond to your comment xox… I hope I’ve shown you that I’m a nonjudgmental unconditionally loving tender and powerful coach that never gives up… Not on you or on anyone who is willing to join me in the most exquisite journey of coming home to your deepest clarity truth and purpose…
This journey will no doubt allow you to attract, keep, and deliciously evolve with the right woman for you, the right woman for your heart and soul, the right woman for your conches pop 🙂 Please go to www.AllanaPratt.com/connect to apply for a complementary session with me. I look forward to seeing you in my inbox 🙂
For those reading this that are just getting to know me please except my invitation also to download my complementary training for men, called How to be a noble bad ass or for women called Vulnerability is the new sexy. It’s my pleasure to contribute to your most glorious journey 🙂