Feeling Loved Is Way Better Than You Think

Wanting love is natural.

After all, compared to this huge world, everyone is just really tiny, and always feels lonely.

No matter how strong you are, no matter how good you are at taking care of yourself, it’s still different when someone else loves you.

Maybe that’s why everyone wants love so much. So many people stumble along the way, even if they fall in love with the wrong person, they still don’t change their minds, they’re still willing to be brave and love.

Sometimes, the people we meet might not be right for us. We love hard, but no matter how many bad experiences we’ve had, we need to keep being brave and fearless, because someday, we might meet someone really great.

A good love, once you find it, is really great.

Feeling loved is just amazing, way better than you think.

You’re always happy because of them.

When you’re single, you eat alone, you sleep alone, you face everything alone. Most of the time, your mood doesn’t change much. It’s just kind of calm.

It’s like there’s nothing really worth being happy about, and nothing really worth being sad about.

It’s not good or bad, you just keep living like that, and you just quietly despair.

But one day, when someone comes into your life, they always give you care, protection, and support. Unconsciously, your heart starts to change.

You’re not always so emotionless. You feel like things are different, and you have something to look forward to.

After that, you’re still you, and time hasn’t really changed much, but because you have someone by your side, you just feel happy for no reason, like something amazing happened.

That person is the one you love, the one who loves you, and the one who lights up your life.

As long as you’re with them, as long as they’re always by your side, giving you love, being devoted to you, you’ll feel so lucky, you’ll feel much happier than so many others.

You feel at peace, you feel safe.

The outside world, your situation, a lot of things change and develop.

There are always unexpected things happening, and there are always unknowns waiting for us ahead.

Most of the time, we’re never really sure about the unknown. We just feel anxious, afraid of bad things happening, afraid of situations we can’t handle.

When you go from being alone to being with someone, someone loves you deeply. Maybe they can’t really empathize with you, they can’t really help you with everything, but as long as they’re there, you feel like you have strength.

When your heart doesn’t have a place to rest, you feel like you’re wandering everywhere. But once your heart has a place to go, you feel like you’ve found a shore to land on, a safe haven.

Facing life together, moving towards the future together, no matter what happens, you won’t be afraid anymore. Their love gives you peace of mind, and gives you the courage to face everything.

A good lover, a good love, can really give you the best healing.

Even if life is still bumpy in the future, you’re ready to face it, and you believe you can overcome it.

You believe in yourself, you radiate.

In love, some people are in a relationship, they have someone, but they don’t get better, they just get more and more insecure, they doubt themselves more and more, they become more and more exhausted.

Their partner doesn’t give them any nourishment, they just absorb all their energy.

That kind of love seems like love, but when you don’t get anything in a relationship, you only lose, it’s clear that the person you love is probably not right for you, and they haven’t really treated you with care.

Real love never makes you worse, it only makes you transform.

It makes you believe more than ever that you’re good enough, that you deserve to be treated with care, that someone really loves you unconditionally, takes care of you in everyday life, and doesn’t ask for anything in return.

When you’re loved, when you’re completely accepted, you really get a lot of nourishment from that love.

You radiate an inner light, you look radiant, and you start to change inside. You become more daring to try things you didn’t dare to try before, to strive for things you didn’t dare to strive for before.

Being with them, your own state, your future, everything is moving in a good direction. Life is bright, the future is promising.

In this life, meeting someone who really loves you is a beautiful thing.

But this kind of encounter is never easy, it’s rare.

So, if you meet someone like that, you have to cherish them, don’t lose this love.

Feel the love and being loved happening at the same time, and let this love last.

And if you’re not so lucky, you don’t have this kind of encounter, it’s a little disappointing, but you don’t have to give up on yourself, just love yourself.

After you love yourself, choose someone and build a family together.

Being able to love who you want is great, but being able to love who you choose is not so bad either.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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