Every second is adding memory to your past, either you are learning or improving yourself. It’s because of your thinking standards. I will describe those hidden thinking patterns which are causing you to lower your potential.
It’s a thinking point of view that is going to shake your life.
Sometimes you spend a lot of time and stick around by work you hate keeping in your mind that you are working hard to get success, it’s ridiculous. You must do what you love, which you like, which makes you feel happy.
The fact is that you believe that by not doing those work you hate, you will never achieve success. You could achieve freedom, money, and you can live your life according to your rules — all you need to discover what you like and WHY.
Of course, this thing helps until you face the trouble or difficulty that hits you so hard in your ribs, and then you come across the reality that now you are in a complete disaster.
If someone is living in society around you and he came across some worries, it does not mean you are responsible for that. It does not mean that you should stand in front of him rather than standing by him to fix it.
You must create an ability in yourself to understand that what are the troubles and difficulties whom you are accountable for and what are those troubles to whom you are not answerable. If you do not comprehend, then you are surely going to pay your whole life cracking other problems, which are not yours to solve
Relationships should not be hard.
Initially, it looks like relationships are hard to deal with. The reason is that relationships show our conduct to us. But, if we have gone by reality, relationships are the ground where we nourish and grow.
The individuals who live around us in our society, they throw a long-lasting or never-ending impact on our lives in our lives. Hard segments are unavoidable, but relationships must last a reasonable force on life. If they are not lasting positive impact on your life, then this is something you should be worried about.
It’s a matter of perception. If you think that you do not feel good in the relationship, then you definitely will not. Spend some time with people, change your attitude and surely your relationship will change.
“I must be a successful person to live a happy life, and I must be a beautiful person to be loved.”
It looks like both success and pleasure are interconnected so hugely that without one, you cannot achieve the other. However, what we think success is, It is so puffed up or ultimately pointless.
Living life on your terms set by you is a success. Seek satisfaction every day. If you think in a way that both success and happiness are not interconnected, then you will start running up behind one, and ultimately you will lose both.
Being successful is not necessary to live a happy life. In the same way, being beautiful is not needed to be loved by someone.
The reality is that many persons who do not have beauty are living a happy life. Why? Because affection lies in the eye. Love does not demand you to be beautiful from the skin; it requires the beauty in your inner-self.
Success and beauty, on the study you figure out that these are capitalist ways to some extent. They make you feel that you are not good enough, so you spend some money on yourself to be better. People start paying for the betterment of their exterior, leaving behind their inner selves in the dirt.
The truth lies in the fact that accepting these facts is the success of an individual.
We do not own our viewpoints. The fact is that the mode in which you think about yourself is just the sum of what people think about you.
Many times you think what is said and why it is said to you. It is all a perception of what people think about you.
You are living a life without charm if you think that you are only the sum of people’s perception of you.
Spend some time in solitary — deliberately.
Reveal and figure out who you are.
Reveal and figure out what you want.
Reveal and figure out what you like.
When you find out this fact, you will not live your life at the mercy of other people’s perceptions. You will live a life on your rules instead of rules set by individuals.
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Previously published on “Hello, Love”, a Medium publication.
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