Question: Coach Allana! My brother constantly steals the woman I am interested in. Last week we were at a party and I talked this woman up and when I returned from getting a drink, he’d already moved in! What’s his problem?
Answer: My goodness that must really frustrate you. It sucks to have someone who supposed to be your support of brother, thwart your success with women. Has this been a long-standing competitive relationship or is this something kind of new now that you guys are of dating age?
Bottom line every challenge in our life is for us not against us.
Sure it’s easy to get frustrated and blame or feel like a victim… Yet invite you to be a noble badass and lean into this challenge to see what the gift is in it for you to grow.
Is this something you’ve talked to him about and told him that it frustrates you? Have you let him know that instead of being competitive, the two of you could be each other‘s wing man?
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