I’m afraid I won’t be attracted to my wife anymore now that she told me her hair is thinning. Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt has a bold invitation…
Question: My wife just told me that her hair was thinning and that she may start losing it. My wife is absolutely gorgeous – I mean drop dead WOW. What happens if I start finding her unattractive. I am trying to be supportive but am concerned that I am just that vain. I don’t want to break her heart but I do want to be honest.
Answer: I get how scary this must be having your drop dead gorgeous wife not longer look as drop dead gorgeous to you. I imagine there’s something about the way she looks that wakes up something in side you that few other women do, yes?
First let’s not rush to conclusions. Let’s get some other opinions on her condition and see what emotional or lifestyle changes could be implemented to avoid this all together.
Second, it seems you’re being invited to go from Love 1.0 to Love 2.0. My this I mean seeing her as Beauty Herself… seeing the beauty beneath the surface, the beauty in her kindness, her actions, the sway of her hips, the touch of her hand.
It seems life is asking you to deepen your partnership and go through something difficult together and find more ways you BOTH see the beauty in one another, the beauty in life, the beauty in all parts of our body, the beauty in your essence.
Your point of view creates your reality, so whatever you look for, you will find. What if you asked What’s the gift in this? Perhaps to buy some hot wigs, cool hats or scarves? Perhaps its time to discover the other reasons you love your wife beyond her hair? Perhaps it’s time to see if part of your identity is wrapped up in having a hot wife? That you’ll think less of you or you’re afraid others will think less of you? That’s some good deep work to dive into my friend!
A great place to awaken the capacity to see, feel, sense ALL of a woman so she feels amazingly seen, adored and appreciated, so she showers you with her love in body, mind and spirit… is my complementary www.GetHerToSayYes.com report and video series. Additionally, walking through this fire with a coach could be the difference between this challenge tearing your marriage apart or strengthening it beyond your imagination. When there’s discomfort… lean in, like you have reaching out to me.
I recommend you contact my [email protected] and say GMP sent me. I’m the man whose wife is losing her hair. I’m ready to have support to make things right. Let me gift you with a complementary Strategy Session in honor of you being proactive to change this, knowing your inability to be there for her during a scary time, could really destroy your trust, intimacy and connection.
I honor your honesty and boldness, great love and endless blessings, Allana
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