We get jealous because we compare. We compare because we are being compared. We get jealous because the person we desire, desire some trait in another person that we don’t possess. “Is he tall, good-looking and funny?” Yes. “Is he tall, good-looking and generous?” Yes. “Is he tall, good-looking and as thoughtful as me?” Yes. “Is this really a person who beats me in every category, or am I just focusing on one thing?” All I know is that he beats me in every category that my girlfriend was comparing us in… “I’m going to be that person that brings… Read more »
We get jealous because we compare. We compare because we are being compared. We get jealous because the person we desire, desire some trait in another person that we don’t possess. “Is he tall, good-looking and funny?” Yes. “Is he tall, good-looking and generous?” Yes. “Is he tall, good-looking and as thoughtful as me?” Yes. “Is this really a person who beats me in every category, or am I just focusing on one thing?” All I know is that he beats me in every category that my girlfriend was comparing us in… “I’m going to be that person that brings… Read more »