When a woman is off the charts, does it make you feel inadequate? Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt changes that by…
Question: I have always been self-confident and comfortable in my own skin. The problem is that I landed a woman that is off the charts! She could have any guy she wanted and for some reason, she is with me. She makes me feel so inadequate (not directly, she is amazing!) I’m just so worried that I am going to lose her to the next good looking guy that walks by or one day she is going to wake up and realize she can do better.
Answer: What a gift this woman is to invite you to the next level of your glorious evolution, dude!
First, stop making her opinion be the source of your worth. Take her off the pedestal. She’s a magnificent goddess… and she farts just like the rest of us. Perhaps hers don’t stink but you get the picture, yes?
Second, inadequacy. What is it that you’ve never faced, that if you faced would force you to heal that part of you that feels not enough? It’s time to sit in the fire my friend. It’s time to breathe through the pain (which is temporary) instead of suffering for eternity with this issue.
Third, if you want to focus on her leaving, fine. She’ll probably leave… cuz when you do this you aren’t present, sexy or noble… However if you focus instead on two things:
- What is it that you desire from her? Start receiving! Relationships are reciprocal, remember?
- What is it that she sees in you, that you don’t (yet). BE that. Exude that. Wake that up in you. Own it. Penetrate the world with it.
Of course you’re going to improve in these matters by reading my complementary report found at www.GetHerToSayYes.com… yet improvement isn’t enough. That’s like trying to cover up an ice-cream cone of crap with sprinkles on top. We’re going for TOTAL CHANGE. Something DIFFERENT. Not just improving upon crap.
What you honestly require is coaching on a deep healing level. In this video I dare you. And offer you a gift if you do. Kind of bold, I know, but time is of the essence. She’s so important to you, yes? Let her inspire you to make YOU that important to you too! Value YOU enough to handle this and LIVE the freedom, power and noble badass’ness you truly are.
Or wait until she breaks up with you and call me. I’ll still love you. I’m sorry to say that most men (and women… me included) are stubborn and want to ‘do it myself’. We require hitting rock bottom to ask for help… because we honestly can’t get up on our own. You can wait until then and I’ll still respect you just as much. And yet I challenge you to not lose her, not wait and to be proactive… be the demand for all of YOU to show up in relationship, in the bedroom, on the back porch when you’re old and grey together… Sign up for my 6 Pack to Success.
And lastly, be sure to drink in my tearful authentic vulnerable THANK YOU for being such a great man, wonderful man, amazing man… willing to do the work, willing to show up, willing to evolve. It’s men like you that keep my heart open, that keep me loving men, believing in men, championing men. I love men! And I honor you. And I would be privileged to book our first session to dissolve the inadequacy, move through the fear and come Home to a place of safety, approval and connection inside, aka being the Noble Badass you truly are.
Deliciously and OH SO gratefully, Allana xoxo