While there is no magic potion, these key points are great indicators.
Sex & Relationships
The Bucket List Box
I have a small, colorful wooden box on my coffee table. It’s a Bucket List box: a generous gift from a thoughtful friend. The idea is that you write your bucket list ideas on tiny slips of paper, save them in the box, and tick off the items one by one.
I have a small, colorful wooden box on my coffee table. It’s a Bucket List box: a generous gift from a thoughtful friend. The idea is that you write your bucket list ideas on tiny slips of paper, save them in the box, and tick off the items one by one.
4 Step Approach to Stop Obsessing Over Someone
The goal is not to stop feeling. The goal is to stop losing yourself when you feel.
The goal is not to stop feeling. The goal is to stop losing yourself when you feel.
A Letter of Apology From a Socially Awkward Man
Perhaps we can start over.
Perhaps we can start over.
How to Create a Conflict-Proof Relationship (With Geoff Laughton)
Practicing Love with Shana James
Practicing Love with Shana James
Women Didn’t Need Another Self-Help Book. They Needed a Different World.
What happens when structural injustice is repackaged as personal growth.
What happens when structural injustice is repackaged as personal growth.
The Single Question that Reveals if You’re Dealing with a Narcissist or Just an Asshole
Ask this. The answer separates personality disorder from plain rudeness.
Ask this. The answer separates personality disorder from plain rudeness.
I Thought I Was Helping
No more one car split between two homes.
No more one car split between two homes.
The 1 Question That Exposes a Cheater in 10 Seconds
The question that makes a cheater forget their script, and the 3 telltale signs that it worked.
The question that makes a cheater forget their script, and the 3 telltale signs that it worked.
The Narcissist Left Malware in Your Mind. Stop Asking It for Permission.
The voice doesn’t need to go quiet. It needs to lose its vote.
The voice doesn’t need to go quiet. It needs to lose its vote.
Love Didn’t Blind You — Familiarity Did
Stop chasing pavements that lead nowhere.
Stop chasing pavements that lead nowhere.
Who Says Strong Women Aren’t Sexy?
Why would you want anything else?
Why would you want anything else?
The Male Loneliness Epidemic Has Never Been About Women
The underlying reason men are feeling lonelier than ever.
The underlying reason men are feeling lonelier than ever.
I Have Been Helping Couples Change for Years. Most of Them Were Missing One Equation.
The relational math of deep systemic change.
The relational math of deep systemic change.
The Great Un-Swipe
Being “too much” for someone is a blessing.
Being “too much” for someone is a blessing.
The Letter That Never Reached You
The rain washed away every word I wrote, but it could never wash away the love I carried — or the lesson I learned after you disappeared from my life.
The rain washed away every word I wrote, but it could never wash away the love I carried — or the lesson I learned after you disappeared from my life.