This is what parents desperately need to stay erotic.
The Two Ways to Stop Being a Hypocrite
Integrity is the distance between your mouth and your feet.
Integrity is the distance between your mouth and your feet.
When’s the Last Time Somebody Lifted You in the Air?
The wondrous child inside you is calling.
The wondrous child inside you is calling.
Are You With Me or Against Me?
The binaries that are locking your relationship.
The binaries that are locking your relationship.
What I Learned After 16 Years of Kissing My Wife Wrong
For some men, kissing is just a step toward sex. For many women, it is the goal.
For some men, kissing is just a step toward sex. For many women, it is the goal.
A Couples Therapist Goes to a Party
Here are four things a party taught me about relationships.
Here are four things a party taught me about relationships.
The Art of Relational Crying
The sweet spot between a over-crier and a blocked crier.
The sweet spot between a over-crier and a blocked crier.
Stop Being the Victim, Savior, or Persecutor in Your Life
Six steps to liberate yourself from unhealthy relationship dynamics.
Six steps to liberate yourself from unhealthy relationship dynamics.
The Word ‘Also’ Can Change Your Life.
Qualifiers deepen your relationships and repair your self-confidence.
Qualifiers deepen your relationships and repair your self-confidence.
How to Get What You Need From Your Partner Without Asking
Six steps toward making your needs heard (and perhaps even fulfilled!).
Six steps toward making your needs heard (and perhaps even fulfilled!).
The Art of Intimacy (AKA Into- Me- See)
Five steps to be more seen and honest in your relationships.
Five steps to be more seen and honest in your relationships.
Let’s Talk About Money in Our Intimate Relationships
The 3 steps you can use to soften the unavoidable financial power dynamic in your life.
The 3 steps you can use to soften the unavoidable financial power dynamic in your life.
Being Loved and Feeling Loved Are Not the Same Thing
The one-to-ten question you can’t say five to.
The one-to-ten question you can’t say five to.
What the Beatles Taught Me About the Book I Wrote Alone
Two teenagers shared credit on every song they wrote. I didn’t share credit on mine.
Two teenagers shared credit on every song they wrote. I didn’t share credit on mine.
I Have Been Helping Couples Change for Years. Most of Them Were Missing One Equation.
The relational math of deep systemic change.
The relational math of deep systemic change.
The Relational Math of Sex
Stop working on your sex life to improve it.
Stop working on your sex life to improve it.















