Marriage guru John Gottman reveals why couples fight, what’s at stake, and why partners can’t yield.
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When couples argue about the typical stuff—money, chores, attention, sex—they’re actually fighting about something much more fundamental. John Gottman gets at the bones of marital conflict.Photo—frankieleon/Flickr
Tom, Thanks for finding this gem. You know you’re seeing a real genius at work when John Gottman can take 30 years of research on relationships and say it clearly and passionately in less than two minutes.