What do people see when they see you? You know often times when we might think when other people see us they think and see our awesomeness, but sometimes we think they are seeing our faults and shortcomings. You may not want to hear this but people actually notice 3 different things when they see you.
The first thing they see is your faults, and it’s not because they like finding all your faults, it’s because they usually resonate with them as well. Often times we walk into a room thinking about the things that we consider our shortcomings and often times that’s the thing that we can see in someone else.
The second thing is people have the tendency to see similarities. We all want to be connected and we all like to connect. And so we like the fact when we have similarities because that brings us together.
The third thing they see when they see you is a mirror image of themselves. Haven’t you met somebody and they instantly didn’t like you? And a lot of that is because we’re showing a lot of people a mirror image of themselves. They see alll the things they can’t stand about themselves. Think about it, they’re not necessarily seeing you, their only saying you through the eyes of them.
Okay, so that means when you walk into a room and you feel people seeing you, remember, they’re not even going to see what you think. They are only going to see the reflection they see in them. So we need to stop and realize what we’re thinking people are thinking of us it does not matter anyway.
So the next time you’re walking around and you wonder what other people think f you, remember that it’s not about you, people only see what they want to see in you and they want to see the faults that resonate with them. Realizing this is the way to live your true life.
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