A woman wants to know how to make sex more pleasurable with her not-so-well-endowed boyfriend.
Originally appeared at She Said He Said
- The Doggie: They suggest you put your head and shoulders down on a pillow, your booty up, and angle your back.
- The Snake: Basically, you lay on your belly, legs barely spread. I don’t know about this, you’ll have to try it and get back to us.
- The Rabbit Ears: You lay on your back, butt on a pillow, and put your knees all the way up by your chest. This seems pretty brilliant, actually.
- The V-Formation: Basically what I first described, but with some twists.
So that should be fun! Also remember your kegels, and practice them during sex. Squeeze on every pull-out, relax on every push in. Got it?
He Said: Penis pump! Penis pump!! Penis pump!!! Okay, sorry about that. Let me refocus. Your question is terrific, and your predicament difficult. Is his penis lacking in length, girth or both? How much do you like this guy, and how much are you willing to do (or try) to find a solution?
If this is a man you love, and hope to spend a portion of your life with, you might as well go above and beyond in an attempt to have satisfying sex for both of you. Since your parts aren’t a perfect match, you’ll both have to get creative. If we’re talking strictly intercourse here, then I’ll have to leave that portion of my answer to She Said. Now that that’s out of the way, let’s start thinking outside of the box (pun intended).
I’m just brainstorming here, but can your boyfriend stimulate your vagina the way you like with his fingers? Hands? What if he uses a vibrator on you? Would you be open to having him put his penis in other (perhaps smaller) orifices on your body? Perhaps Kegel exercises could help. Get imaginative! Explore all options, and after you’ve exhausted all possibilities, decide if you can get the kind of pleasure you seek (and deserve). Don’t give up easily. You’re fighting for your (sex) life!
Do you have a question for Josie and Eli? Ask it here.
Photo of detail of zipper on blue jeans courtesy of Shutterstock