Is it Okay to Ask Out My Coworker?

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About She Said He Said

Eli and Josie, friends since college, realized how lucky they were to have one another—an honest friend of the opposite sex who tells it like it is. They wanted to share that with the world and so was born.


  1. The Wet One says:

    A better question is, is it ok to put your hand on your co-workers nice shapely butt like that?

    A much better and more obviously answered, question.

    Nice butt for the photo caption I must say. But I wouldn’t put my hand on it. Especially at the office. Can you “SEXUAL HARRASSMENT LAWSUIT”? Like holy stupid move Batman!


    • Joanna Schroeder says:

      Best thing about that photo is that Shutterstock titled it “Boss gives subordinate a hug” or something like that. I was like, “That’s a HUG?!” ;)

      It is sort of an awesome photo, isn’t it? I like the way it’s framed so close-up… And says so much!

  2. If she is a friend leave it at that.

  3. Had half a blowout with a woman last year when I opined that any guy, and I appollogize to Eli & Josie, who is maintaining a close friendship with a woman is stacking his bullpen.
    sounds like my man is in need of a reliever and is too lazy to work the free agent market.

  4. It is ok to ask out a coworker, but there are a myriad of problems that can arise. Most relationships end up going sour so you have to understand that your work environment might be not quite fun. If you are the type you cant see your ex because of feelings then you will not want to date a coworker. If you understand these risks and can handle them then go right ahead and ask the person out.


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