A Response to Elle Beau ❇︎’s story.
Sex Can Be Terrifying
Pregnancies, STDs, and Pain, Oh My!
Pregnancies, STDs, and Pain, Oh My!
Re-Born Through the Births of My Children
They taught me how to truly love and be loved.
They taught me how to truly love and be loved.
A Final Farewell
to the dream of the perfect lover
to the dream of the perfect lover
Heartbeats Telling the Story of Trauma
the body doesn’t forget…
the body doesn’t forget…
The Stay-At-Home Parent Story
It has “de-evolved” to where we are today.
It has “de-evolved” to where we are today.
Children as Trophies
Those cute, little, sparkly things…
Those cute, little, sparkly things…
January 6th Sucks. I Lost Him that Day.
You see, it was three years ago today that my cell phone rang.
You see, it was three years ago today that my cell phone rang.
Making a Safe Space for Men to Grow Up
Prerequisites: Our own self-healing and maturity.
Prerequisites: Our own self-healing and maturity.
The Job I Do Best Costs Me Everything, But Pays in Love
I have no regrets.
I have no regrets.
What Matters Most (But Can Also Hurt the Most)
To explore where the pain is and where it came from is the most courageous thing we can do.
To explore where the pain is and where it came from is the most courageous thing we can do.
Digesting My Partner’s Sexual History
While being plagued by inadequacy and insecurity.
While being plagued by inadequacy and insecurity.
Are We All Wrong About Men?
Is their pain too big for them, too?
Is their pain too big for them, too?
Another Problem With Asking for What You Need
…there is always risk that it’s impossible.
…there is always risk that it’s impossible.
Survivor’s Guilt and My Children
What a blender taught me.
What a blender taught me.
The Heartbreaking Truths About Love in Middle Age
I have a lot to figure out and not a lot of time to do it in.
I have a lot to figure out and not a lot of time to do it in.