Welcome to the ugly last stage of white America’s dominance addiction.
We’re All Incels on This Bus
Because we’re raised in man box culture, all men contain fragments of masculinity extremists’ world views.
Because we’re raised in man box culture, all men contain fragments of masculinity extremists’ world views.
On Predictive Grief
“Let me try and carry you the way I used to one more time.”
His childhood is moving beyond my conscious self into memory, into dreams. That is enough.
When Women Say ‘No, Thank You’ to Our Offer of a Date
Men can learn to see the lifetime of inflection points that inform women’s choices about our requests for intimacy.
Men can learn to see the lifetime of inflection points that inform women’s choices about our requests for intimacy.
Do You Know Why Aunt Jemima is Called ‘Aunt’?
Why is Aunt Jemima racist? Here’s exactly why. And I do mean exactly.
Why is Aunt Jemima racist? Here’s exactly why. And I do mean exactly.
A Simple #MeToo Thought Experiment for Men
Many men continue to feel uncertain about the #MeToo movement. It’s time for that to change.
Many men continue to feel uncertain about the #MeToo movement. It’s time for that to change.
In Case a Venn Diagram Would Be Helpful
White nationalism and masculinity extremists overlap because of the ways by which we train boys out of connection.
White nationalism and masculinity extremists overlap because of the ways by which we train boys out of connection.
When Men Say, ‘I Am Not a Rapist’.
There will be no peace and no comfort for any man until all of this ends.
There will be no peace and no comfort for any man until all of this ends.
White Racism Is an Extinction Level Flaw in Our Species
Leveraging human diversity is how we get out of this alive.
Leveraging human diversity is how we get out of this alive.
Electing Women Will Save Our Lives
Electing women leaders attacks the culture that empowers authoritarians.
Electing women leaders attacks the culture that empowers authoritarians.
What About Woke White Boys?
Children need confirmation and dialogue.
Children need confirmation and dialogue.
Why Not Voting for Biden May Be the Last Vote You Cast
This end of America thing is closer than we think.
This end of America thing is closer than we think.
Men and Masks: How the Man Box Is Getting Us Killed
Men are conditioned to be more concerned about their masculinity then about caring for the people in their communities.
Men are conditioned to be more concerned about their masculinity then about caring for the people in their communities.
Predatory Capitalism, Racism, and Man Box Culture
Our brutal culture of masculinity beats the empathy out of our sons and we all suffer.
Our brutal culture of masculinity beats the empathy out of our sons and we all suffer.
Ambiguous Grief and Covid-19
Guess what? Our American social system is utterly broken.
Guess what? Our American social system is utterly broken.
Diversity and Inclusion 101 for Men: Guys Telling Jokes
Men seeing what might have been previously unseen in terms of why we make the choices we make, can only be an advantage.
Men seeing what might have been previously unseen in terms of why we make the choices we make, can only be an advantage.















