Despite their terrible toll, breakups are an inevitable part of modern-day relationships.
Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-Cheating!
A really effective way to destroy someone is to betray them, reject them, and abandon them.
A really effective way to destroy someone is to betray them, reject them, and abandon them.
Relationship Longevity: A Quirk of a Bygone Age?
Have we collectively lost the art of staying married for life?
Have we collectively lost the art of staying married for life?
Breakups in Your Thirties
The worst of all times?
The worst of all times?
My Year of Magical Thinking
Every day was a struggle to stay alive.
Every day was a struggle to stay alive.
What’s the Point of Marriage If Everyone Gets Divorced?
Is it time to call time on an institution whose vows are more honoured in the breach?
Is it time to call time on an institution whose vows are more honoured in the breach?
Why the Cheater Always Wins
The unpalatable truth about bad behaviour and its consequences.
The unpalatable truth about bad behaviour and its consequences.
Severing Ties: The Psychology of Estrangement
Spouses, partners, parents, children, siblings, friends — no one is off-limits anymore.
Spouses, partners, parents, children, siblings, friends — no one is off-limits anymore.
Alphas, Betas, Omegas, Gammas, Sigmas
They are the modalities of malehood, apparently. But is it all just nonsense?
They are the modalities of malehood, apparently. But is it all just nonsense?
The Philosophy of Male Friendship
Lessons in how not to do it.
Lessons in how not to do it.
When Did Falling in Love Become an Excuse for Bad Behaviour?
Romanticism is the protective shield for the terrible things we do in the name of love.
Romanticism is the protective shield for the terrible things we do in the name of love.
Why You Should Lie to Your Partner
Trust me: unadulterated, unedited honesty is overrated.
Trust me: unadulterated, unedited honesty is overrated.
The Cheater’s Handbook of Secrets and Lies
It’s about sex, obviously. But mainly it’s about power and ego.
It’s about sex, obviously. But mainly it’s about power and ego.
Why I Didn’t Come Out Until 23
And it wasn’t until my late twenties everyone in my life knew.
And it wasn’t until my late twenties everyone in my life knew.
Why a Life With Too Little in It Leaves Us Dangerously Exposed
You don’t have enough going on, a good friend of mine told me once. He was right.
You don’t have enough going on, a good friend of mine told me once. He was right.
Why Are We So Moralistic About Cheating?
Why people cheat, what it usually looks like and what it really means.
Why people cheat, what it usually looks like and what it really means.