I have learned that there are stages of growth to my allyship.
The Immunity of Rich White Men
I was raised to believe that integrity was everything. My father used to say: “A man or a woman, who doesn’t keep their word — is nothing.”
I was raised to believe that integrity was everything. My father used to say: “A man or a woman, who doesn’t keep their word — is nothing.”
Our Massive Gaza Blindspot: the Victim-Perpetrator Cycle
I agree that colonialism and racism are center-stage, here.
I agree that colonialism and racism are center-stage, here.
“Why should I give up my stuff?” What White Fear Misses About Letting Go
Justice is good for us.
Justice is good for us.
Caucus Crisis: Building Collective Will
This is what our caucuses need.
This is what our caucuses need.
It Is Time To Re-Write the Constitution
It’s time to heal.
It’s time to heal.
Ancestral Healing: A Journey Back to Italy
Healing ancestral trauma when it shows up.
Healing ancestral trauma when it shows up.
Healing White Guilt: From Truth to Freedom
In search of a personal, collective, and global dimension to healing white guilt.
In search of a personal, collective, and global dimension to healing white guilt.
Being White in Racial Healing Work
Racial Justice and Racial Healing work are not the same thing.
Racial Justice and Racial Healing work are not the same thing.
Beyond the March: Healing an Adolescent Nation
This article was originally published on January 19, 2017. With the killing of Ahmaud Arbery and George Floyd, the wound is reopened. Quanita and I decided to republish this.
This article was originally published on January 19, 2017. With the killing of Ahmaud Arbery and George Floyd, the wound is reopened. Quanita and I decided to republish this.
White Folk: Stop Cleaning Streets. Clean up Minds and Systems.
Every single system disproportionately mistreats people of color.
Every single system disproportionately mistreats people of color.
Your Woman Doesn’t Need You
A letter to a friend that speaks to the challenges I know many women and men struggle with.
A letter to a friend that speaks to the challenges I know many women and men struggle with.
Healing White Shame: Choosing Responsibility
We need to know our history to make different choices. But our collective shame has become a badge of honor in white progressive spaces, that is to a great extent unexamined.
We need to know our history to make different choices. But our collective shame has become a badge of honor in white progressive spaces, that is to a great extent unexamined.
Do We Have to Be Angry to Be Activists?
While there’s nothing wrong with channeling anger through activism, it is also possible to not be led by our pain.
While there’s nothing wrong with channeling anger through activism, it is also possible to not be led by our pain.
Sexual Violence is the Backbone of White Supremacy
Historically, white women have held white men’s deepest secrets. TRIGGER WARNING. This article depicts sexual violence and its impact.
Historically, white women have held white men’s deepest secrets. TRIGGER WARNING. This article depicts sexual violence and its impact.














