This comment was by Benjamin on the post Dangers of the “Blame Game” (& What Blame Really Reveals) by MeetMindful
The same once happened to me.
For a whole year, I was angry at my ex-girlfriend, for an indeed, painful breakup.
I wanted to hurt her with my anger …but she just moved on and I stayed back hurting myself with the anger.
To all guys out there who once had the same experience:
We all have to take our hits and learn our lessons. Anger will bring you nowhere. It will make you
less attractive to other women. Also, your anger pushes away the ones who love you like your friends and family.
I tell you how to get over it. It’s easy:
It is a simple decision. Maybe you’ll have to repeat it several times but just forgiving yourself takes out the energy of your anger. And you can move on finding someone who is worth your love
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