Step One: STOP TRYING — if a man doesn’t love you, you cannot make him. If you can’t be yourself with him and feel loved at the same time, run away. Pronto.
Step Two: STOP TRYING — the right man will love you because he just can’t help himself. For your hideous messy bun and through disgusting (let’s be real about it) childbirth, he will think you’re beautiful.
Step Three: STOP — JUST STOP. If being with someone feels like a chore (aka, you’re wondering how to make him love you), it will always drain you.
Summation: Don’t bother trying. The right man will love you for who you are.
Also, this article was a test.
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