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Advice & Confessions
Since You’re Gone
Our bodies, and our nervous systems, have a deep wisdom, developed over countless millennia.
Our bodies, and our nervous systems, have a deep wisdom, developed over countless millennia.
Why We Defend Those Who Hurt Us and Resent Those Who Warn Us?
The psychology of people-pleasing, repeated betrayal, and why those who warn us often become the enemy.
The psychology of people-pleasing, repeated betrayal, and why those who warn us often become the enemy.
Powerful People Come in All Packages
The growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts
The growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts
You Don’t Need Motivation. You Need to Learn How to Move Without It
I spent too much time waiting for my feelings to approve decisions my future had already made.
I spent too much time waiting for my feelings to approve decisions my future had already made.
What Counts as a Life Well Spent?
We generally measure success in terms of accomplishments.
We generally measure success in terms of accomplishments.
What Is a Muse to an Artist?
A person? A memory? A feeling?
A person? A memory? A feeling?
How to Handle Rejection Without Spiraling
Rejection is one piece of data, not a verdict, and handling it well starts with how you spend the next hour.
Rejection is one piece of data, not a verdict, and handling it well starts with how you spend the next hour.
Our Journey in Life: From Beginning to End
From the moment we take our first breath to the day we take our last, life teaches us lessons that shape who we are, what we believe, and how we see the world.
From the moment we take our first breath to the day we take our last, life teaches us lessons that shape who we are, what we believe, and how we see the world.
We Don’t Have to Turn Pain Into a Purpose or Pain Doesn’t Have to Be Our Muse
For some reason, we keep romanticizing pain in creative work.
For some reason, we keep romanticizing pain in creative work.
Why Men Need to Do Difficult Things After 40
Difficulty is knowing when to stop.
Difficulty is knowing when to stop.
The Villa I Wasn’t Meant to See
A trip to Geelong, an unexpected door, and what happened when intuition met common sense.
A trip to Geelong, an unexpected door, and what happened when intuition met common sense
The Practice of Doing Less, on Purpose
Leo Babauta offers practical ways to reduce commitments, resist the pressure to stay busy and create more space for rest and inner peace.
Leo Babauta offers practical ways to reduce commitments, resist the pressure to stay busy and create more space for rest and inner peace.
Peace Is Not Loud: Why Real Calm Returns Slowly
There is a version of peace many people are chasing that doesn't actually exist.
There is a version of peace many people are chasing that doesn’t actually exist.
Mind Your Elders
Whatever your ancestors can teach you, go out of your way to remember it.
Whatever your ancestors can teach you, go out of your way to remember it.
Why Wouldn’t I Just Use AI for That?
Artificial experiences don’t lead to genuine happiness.
Artificial experiences don’t lead to genuine happiness.