Or when was the last time we drew on the pavement?
About Oleksandra Fomichova
The Version of You That Everyone Loved May Not Be the Real You
I thought I was becoming a new version of myself. But I came back to the blueprint.
I thought I was becoming a new version of myself. But I came back to the blueprint.
What Happens When We Stop Explaining Ourselves?
And very few people talk about what comes next.
And very few people talk about what comes next.
The Difference Between Understanding Your Trauma and Living Inside It
Sometimes situations repeat not to teach us something, but to remind us that we already know.
Sometimes situations repeat not to teach us something, but to remind us that we already know.
Reaction Is Not Intention
They say shame and self-blame are among the most self-destructive emotions.
They say shame and self-blame are among the most self-destructive emotions.
Why We Stop Reacting to the Things That Once Destroyed Us
Why your creativity can be your medicine.
Why your creativity can be your medicine.
The Quiet Luxury of Becoming Yourself
Or why i will never give this girl inside me away again.
Or why i will never give this girl inside me away again.
Why People Sometimes Compete With You When You Never Intended to Compete With Them
Or why i don’t want my life to turn into a marathon.
Or why i don’t want my life to turn into a marathon.
Why ‘Focus on You’ Isn’t Independence
Or can you stay in the show behind the glass forever?
Or can you stay in the show behind the glass forever?
Why You Don’t Need to Become a Different Person to Heal
People often misunderstand what healing means.
People often misunderstand what healing means.
Surrender Does Not Mean Giving up Your Truth
Surrender does not mean that you have to surrender everything.
Surrender does not mean that you have to surrender everything.
How I Found My Own Formula for Surrender
I’m not even talking about the fact that I thought it was about love.
I’m not even talking about the fact that I thought it was about love.
Your Best Ideas Don’t Arrive on Command
Ideas often emerge unexpectedly when the mind is relaxed and not actively trying to generate them.
Ideas often emerge unexpectedly when the mind is relaxed and not actively trying to generate them.
Centering Yourself Is Not a Fight
or Why “Focus on You” Isn’t About Strength
or Why “Focus on You” Isn’t About Strength
Why Our Most Important Audience Is the One We See in the Mirror
A real creator’s goal is not to become viral but to express originality, which may not always appeal to everyone.
A real creator’s goal is not to become viral but to express originality, which may not always appeal to everyone.
What Happens When You Stop Explaining Yourself to People Who Have Already Decided Who You Are
Sometimes we don’t even realize that our need to explain ourselves can actually hurt us.
Sometimes we don’t even realize that our need to explain ourselves can actually hurt us.