Sex – Sex – Sex. Why is it so important to us as men?
And at the same, does it really matter why sex is so important for us guys?
Who cares about why? I just want it and I want it more often.
Problem. Those sound like the words of a needy boy, not a confident and alluring man.
Ok, here’s why the “why” matters.
Once you understand the “why,” you’re in a much better position to effectively communicate your sexual needs to your wife or partner.
And of course, that’ll get you closer to your end goal of having more sex.
The desire for sex in a committed long-term relationship is not just about sex, as I often say.
It’s about…connection.
So how do you confidently communicate with your wife or partner about sex so that your words are received?
Succinctly said, you…
- Speak from the heart.
- Emphasize the importance of connection.
- You use lots of “we” and “us” language and less of “I” or “you.”
“I want more sex. You’re never open to it.” Big no-no’s. That’s needy boy language.
Talk to her like a confident, calm, and loving man.
That’s exactly what I model in the video below – a man confidently communicating to his partner about his desire to have a sexually fulfilling relationship.
“And if I ever dare to repeat this to my sabretooth-tiger-lady, I would do it word by word,” said one guy.
Do you seek to increase sex and intimacy in your relationship?
If so, let’s explore what’s possible for you.
Leverage my 15 years of coaching men in relationship with FREE custom feedback on your relationship in 1 of 2 ways.
First, shoot me a quick email to initiate a guaranteed powerful conversation to help you get the upper hand on your relationship.
An honest, real conversation between two guys. No sales pitch. That’s not my style. I’d be honored to hear from you.
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Previously Published on stuartmotola.com and is republished on Medium.
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