You don’t understand! You’re not listening! John Gray explains how blame statements shut down communication and shows how to express frustration constructively.
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John Gray is the author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. In this short video, he explains our physiological response to blame statements and how it precludes effective communication, and offers a healthy way to tell your partner you’re not being heard.
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