If you think that you can simply change someone with all your efforts and love, then buddy you are wrong. There is very less chance that someone changes and that too when you are begging for love.
I mean, what kind of love was that when you have to beg for it? And I don’t even understand why girls even fall for those guys.
There are so many cute innocent guys and we still fall for those playboys trying to make our life hell.
I personally faced such depressing years that even I cannot explain how many problems I faced.
My best friend started having feelings for me, and then he started convincing me that even though I love him. That made me piss off sometimes but since he was one of my trusted ones, I said I like him too.
But I didn’t mean the way he took us. We were friends and he ruined it all. All of a sudden he started to control everything and I didn’t know when actually I lost myself.
We trust our friends and we share everything, but think what if they start to use all your information against you?
He had my mother’s number and soon started to threaten me. He used to say if I don’t stay with him he will call my mom and tell her shit about me and will make sure she hates me.
He literally made me depressed and made my life a living hell for nearly two years. And I am ashamed to say, that I made such a person my friend and I trusted him.
That was the biggest mistake of my life. A mistake that I still regret.
After two years, when things went worse, I managed to come out of that toxic relationship that I never wanted and was only forced because he wanted to just show everyone I am his girlfriend.
That was pathetic…
After I left him, he started making me feel miserable. He used to call me at late night, send me harassing messages, and even warned me he will do something really bad.
Even after all such things happened, I never complained about him only because I didn’t want trouble in my parent’s life.
I wanted them to be safe from these things.
It’s been two years, and things have changed. I am now again a cheerful bird and living my happy life. And I still get sometimes like a few times a month his warning message that he will ruin me.
Now they don’t trouble me.
Because I am like, what kind of people they are. They literally spent a few years just to make sure I am horrible.
Amazing.
Their parents must be so proud.
I think I should not disturb them with their work and just let them waste more years of misery that I am still smiling even after they did so much.
There was time, I had tears rolling down my cheeks, sleepless nights, and spent hours talking with myself. To recover. Lol, things change but people don’t.
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This post was previously published on MEDIUM.COM.
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