If it makes you angry, fearful, pissed, confused, worried, wary, doubtful, you are unsure of it.
And some things stick with you.
Like I echo with these words I came across somewhere — If you are not sure about it, the answer is NO.
This epiphany happened today and I was like what! I have been so confused for nothing!
For some time now I have been taking shelter in fear to avoid doing something I thought I ‘should’ do. It was making my life miserable. All this confusion of to do or not to do.
And today I realized that I didn’t really want to do it and that’s why I was making up scenarios of all the things that could go wrong if I do it.
Now the question came why didn’t I want to do it?
And the answer was so simple. Because it wasn’t bringing any joy to me.
Maybe I thought it could but my core knew. My core knew that it wasn’t right for me.
And when it is right, I don’t feel the confusion in my insides.
I am as sure as it gets.
That comes with deliberative thinking not algorithmic actions!
And that’s how my triggers are fading.
Without uncertainty, life does become joyous and thoughts do become happy.
So this morning, wishing lots of clarity to you, to me and to us.
For Joys galore! 🥂
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