About Joanna Schroeder

By day, Joanna Schroeder is the type of soccer mom who opens her car door and junk spills out all over the ground, but by night she is the “She” in She Said He Said, a sex and dating advice blog. Joanna also happens to be a runner, yoga junkie and alumnus of the UCLA Women’s Studies Department.

Is Bra-Snapping The Beginning Of Domestic Abuse?

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Joanna Schroeder explains that little boys aren’t the only ones who tease because they like someone.

Want A Kiss? Sign This: Office Romances And ‘Love Contracts’

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Joanna Schroeder thinks corporate “love contracts” may help protect against harassment and false accusations.

So What If Your 7 Year-Old Son Is Gay?

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Joanna Schroeder praises HuffPo blogger Amelia for offering her son unconditional love throughout his very early ‘coming out’ process.

It’s Complicated: On JFK, Mimi Alford, and Regret

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Joanna Schroeder responds to Tom Matlack about Mimi Alford’s confession of an affair with JFK.

The World Missed Out On ‘Shame’

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Joanna Schroeder talks about Academy Award nominations gone awry and the complications of male “goodness” in films.

Why I Can’t Write What’s Good About Masculinity

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Joanna Schroeder tries to figure out what makes describing male goodness so challenging, and discovers it’s because there’s just so much of it.

Two and a Half Shades of Masculinity

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Joanna Schroeder hates the show Two and a Half Men, and wonders if she’s the only one.

140 Characters Is Not Enough

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Joanna Schroeder wants people to hear and be heard. And it doesn’t always happen on Twitter.

The (Quiet) Feminist Revolution

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Joanna Schroeder advocates both individual responsibility and an understanding of the realities of the society we live in.

People, Let’s Stop Waging War on One Another

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Joanna Schroeder hopes men and women can become allies in the war against inequality, without too many casualties on either side.

Riding in PopPop’s Vulva

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Joanna Schroeder teaches her sons about sex, and ponders the merit of words like “vajayjay” and “hoo-hah.”

On Fear Of Men Being Vulnerable: A Commenter Discusses “What If It Had Been a Girl in the Shower?”

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“What I’m most interested in is the idea that the same-sex nature of abuser and victim somehow caused a sense of shame within the witnessed that ran deep enough for him to run away and keep it a secret.”

Objectifying Ryan Gosling

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Women lust, and men lust. Joanna Schroeder wonders why we can’t just leave it at that.

June Cleaver With a Sex Blog

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Joanna Schroeder shares how, when times got tough, she was able to take on a new role that challenged her identity in order to help her family.