About She Said He Said

Eli and Josie, friends since college, realized how lucky they were to have one another—an honest friend of the opposite sex who tells it like it is. They wanted to share that with the world and so www.shesaidhesaid.me was born.

I Want to Start Dating, But I Don’t Know How

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A guy who’s never been been kissed asks Eli and Josie how to start asking women out on dates.

Am I Jealous, or Genuinely Concerned?

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A man’s female friend is about to go hang out with her ex, and he’s worried… and a little jealous. He asks Eli and Josie how to handle these feelings.

Help! My Boyfriend Wants to Wait Until Marriage for Sex!

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Eli and Josie help a woman whose boyfriend’s pledge of virginity is leaving her unsatisfied.

I’m In Love With My Friend… But She Has a Boyfriend

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A man looks to Eli and Josie for answers on why, after he confessed his love for a female friend, she went away completely.

My Girlfriend Denies Facebook-Stalking Her Ex

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A man asks Eli and Josie for help when he suspects his girlfriend is Facebook-stalking her ex.

How Should I Handle a Rape That Happened in My Poly-Quad Relationship?

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A man asks Eli and Josie for help with an assault that happened in a poly-quad relationship he’s in.

My Wife is Attracted to Black Guys, and I’m White

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Eli and Josie help a couple figure out whether or not it matters that she’s attracted to Black men, when she’s married to a White guy.

My Wife Is My Best Friend… Now, How Do I Make Her My Lover?

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Eli and Josie help a man turn his friendship-based marriage into one of passion and desire.

He Doesn’t Believe That I Love Him

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A woman asks Eli and Josie for help in convincing her boyfriend that she truly does love him.

Should I Let My Wife Hook Up With Another Guy?

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A man asks Eli and Josie for advice about his wife’s unexpected fantasy.

I’m in Love With a Married Redneck

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A man asks Eli and Josie for help in keeping the attention of his married girlfriend.

Twenty Years Down the (Shower) Drain?

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A man is frustrated with being left out of his wife’s vocal self-pleasuring, and asks Eli and Josie if she might be cheating on him.

I’m Not Worthy of Her

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A man with low self-esteem asks Eli and Josie for help in believing his girlfriend when she says she loves him.

My Husband Live-Chats with Porn Girls

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Watching porn is one thing. Live -chatting with sex workers is another.

Rough Times With My Hairy Girlfriend

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Eli and Josie offer advice to a guy concerned about his naturalist girlfriend’s body hair.

My Girlfriend Blacked Out, Then Dumped Me

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A guy who was dumped after his girlfriend blacked out wants Eli and Josie’s help in figuring out what is going on with her.