One guy dares to ask what almost everyone else is wondering.
About She Said He Said
Eli and Josie, friends since college, realized how lucky they were to have one another—an honest friend of the opposite sex who tells it like it is. They wanted to share that with the world and so www.shesaidhesaid.me was born.
Turning Sex Into Performance Art?
February 16, 2012 By 40 Comments
A woman wonders why her boyfriend can’t just be happy with Missionary Position.
Is She Improving Him or Trying to Change Him?
February 14, 2012 By 3 Comments
A woman wonders how to get her slobbish guy away from his laptop and into some nicer clothes.
Should The Dog Be Allowed In The Bedroom?
February 10, 2012 By 5 Comments
A woman laments that her boyfriend lets the dog watch them have sex.
How Can I Get More Oral Sex?
February 6, 2012 By 118 Comments
A guy wonders why his girlfriend is so hesitant to give him oral, and Eli and Josie think the answer may lie with him.
Does Masturbation End When You Move In Together?
January 29, 2012 By 108 Comments
A woman wonders if her boyfriend’s “self love” is a reflection upon the quality of lovin’ he’s getting from her.
I’m In Love with My Close Friend
January 28, 2012 By 8 Comments
Is pursuing a relationship with a close friend worth a second shot?
I Was True to My Girlfriend and She Dumped Me Anyway
January 19, 2012 By 9 Comments
A man wonders if he should de-friend his ex-girlfriend in order to spare her feelings.
I’m In Love With A Married Woman
January 14, 2012 By 17 Comments
A guy finally meets his dream girl, only to discover that someone else is her soul mate.
Long-Distance Love?
January 6, 2012 By 4 Comments
What to do when half of your relationship might have to leave the country.
How Do I Tell Her About That Thing I Did?
January 3, 2012 By 15 Comments
One man wonders how he can broach a difficult moment from his past with his girlfriend.
What the Tuck Is Going on?
December 29, 2011 By 19 Comments
Joanna and Eli tackle the age-old question of what to do with your penis when you’re spooning.
How Do I Respectfully Grind With Someone?
December 28, 2011 By 32 Comments
A college boy wonders how to navigate a crowded club and move in for the kill—or just the grind.
Can You Date Someone Without Ever Going on a Date?
December 25, 2011 By 1 Comment
What’s a relationship if you’re never out together in public?
Did I Get Replaced by a Dildo?
December 22, 2011 By 99 Comments
Josie and Eli discuss why female masturbation should not make men feel replaced.
Wait, He Has Naked Pictures of His Ex-Girlfriends?
December 17, 2011 By 52 Comments
Is it ever OK for a man to keep nude pictures of his former lovers?
Vocalyze
“When I was in a men’s group in 1972, I distinctly remember feeling edgy when we would hug.”
“My son and daughter keep reminding me that things are changing.” The times they are a changin’ (comment and Marco Magnani video cover of Bob Dylan song.)