About She Said He Said

Eli and Josie, friends since college, realized how lucky they were to have one another—an honest friend of the opposite sex who tells it like it is. They wanted to share that with the world and so www.shesaidhesaid.me was born.

I Dumped the Love of My Life and Now She Doesn’t Trust Me

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A man asks Eli and Josie how to win back the trust of the woman he broke up with so that he could do some work on himself.

My Future Father-in-Law Thinks I Should Be a ‘Girly Man’

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A man wonders why his fiancé’s father assumes that he should be girly, simply because he’s the shorter one in the relationship.

How Do I Tell Her How Much I Like Her?

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A man asks Eli and Josie how to ask a famous woman for a date without seeming like a groupie.

Should I Tell Her She’s Dating Out Of Her League?

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A man asks Josie and Eli how he can tell his friend that she’s setting her sights too high with the men she crushes on.

He Wants To See Other Girls, Is He Using Me?

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A woman wonders if the guy wants to see other women because he’s just not that into her.

Why Don’t Women Like Nice Guys?

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A self-proclaimed “nice guy” wonders why women seem to get bored of drama-free love and start looking for trouble.

I’m Still In Love With My Ex, Should I Tell Her?

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A man still has feelings for his ex, and he wonders if he should reach out and try to rekindle things.

Is He Too Small For Her?

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A woman wants to know how to make sex more pleasurable with her not-so-well-endowed boyfriend.

Is He Too Concerned With Her Pleasure?

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A woman wonders if her boyfriend is too focused on her orgasms.

What Does It Take To Make Long-Distance Love Work?

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A man wonders whether he should pursue a long-distance relationship, or if it would be better to cut his losses.

Can He Learn To Give Those Long Loving Stares?

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A shy man wonders how he can perfect the loving stares required in romantic love.

Should A Man Stand Up For His Woman?

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A woman wonders if her boyfriend’s female friend is truly just a friend.

My Girlfriend Called Me By Another Guy’s Name

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A guy wonders how to handle his girlfriend’s secretive behavior and black-out drinking.

Am I Not Enough For Her?

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A man wonders if his girlfriend’s newfound interest in vibrators is a reflection upon his ability to please her.

How Important is Man-Scaping?

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A man wonders how manicured he’s supposed to keep his “private area”.

What If He’s Had More Sex Than Me?

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A woman is uncomfortable with her boyfriend’s level of sexual experience.