“When I was in a men’s group in 1972, I distinctly remember feeling edgy when we would hug.”

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“My son and daughter keep reminding me that things are changing.” The times they are a changin’ (comment and Marco Magnani video cover of Bob Dylan song.)

Say Good-bye to “That’s So Gay”: On the Decline of Homophobia

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Mark McCormack: “We do no-one any favors if we only fight prejudice that is, for some, yesterday’s battle.”

“Want to scare the crap out of the politicians in Washington? Figure out what we all agree on”

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“This issue of how to reduce the reactivity on our political discourse is central to my thinking of late.”

“With non-Western cultures, you really have to humble yourself and drop a western centric view to at least understand them.”

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This comment was from Spidaman3 on the post Headscarves and Men Holding Hands: Coming Out as a Cultural Relativist

“Why have artists abandoned their duty to say the unsayable?”

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How does one explain the lack of moral courage in modern art?

Stuff Guys Do, From The Just Really Cool Department: LED Night Snowboarding

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A mini film by Jacob Sutten

“Condoms just don’t provide adequate control.”

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This is about individual control, not trust.

“It’s all retouching.”

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Folks, EVERY image is photoshopped.

The Focusing Illusion: Why We Misjudge the Impact of Outcomes

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A “micro-excerpt” from the book “This Will Make You Smarter: 151 Big Thinkers Each Pick a Concept to Enhance Your Cognitive Toolkit.”

Former ESPN Editor Apologizes for “Chink In The Armor” Headline, Says Wasn’t Meant to Be Racist

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“I’m so sorry that I offended people. I’m so sorry if I offended Jeremy.”

From SNL to Statesman: A glimpse of Al Franken

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Excerpts from “You Can Call Me Senator” by Jesse Kornbluth in Harvard Magazine

“Wanting to cuddle on the couch is not proof men are more physically needy.”

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“Dating sites are loaded with men who list among their desires “cuddling on the sofa with a movie…” or similar.”

The Conversation: Let’s Talk About Race, Again

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Andrew Cotto and Damon Young continue their wide-ranging discussion about race, America, and the NBA.

“In fact, I live with multiple ghosts.”

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This comment was by Luis Garrido on the post Can Men Live Alone?

“One of the basic needs of a child is reciprocal affection.”

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This comment was from MichelleG on the post “What exactly makes a ‘Good’ Parent?”

“Maybe one solution is to stop using the phrase ‘domestic violence’ as if it were some totally different kind of activity than other crimes.”

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This comment is from That Guy in response to “A Reader Responds to Chris Brown Post”