I think it is important to remember that few of us are normal.
Choosy Beggars
It wasn’t until I started following the hilarious Charlotte Dobre on YouTube that I heard the term “choosy beggars.”
It wasn’t until I started following the hilarious Charlotte Dobre on YouTube that I heard the term “choosy beggars.”
Songs to Take Us Through the Journey of Healing
Healing from narcissistic abuse/relational trauma not easy, and it’s not a linear process or a checklist.
Healing from narcissistic abuse/relational trauma not easy, and it’s not a linear process or a checklist.
Narcissistic Lies Are Like Rats
For every one you see, there are 100 that you don’t see.
For every one you see, there are 100 that you don’t see.
The Shallowness of the Narcissist
This might not be so bad if it wasn’t also that they tend to do this in a very convincing way.
This might not be so bad if it wasn’t also that they tend to do this in a very convincing way.
Why Am I Googling ‘Signs My Partner Is a Narcissist?’
They won’t play by normal relationship rules and we can’t play by theirs.
They won’t play by normal relationship rules and we can’t play by theirs.
Sometimes Not Wanting to Hurt People Is a Trauma Response
Wait, what? Isn’t not wanting to hurt people a good thing? Why on earth would you say it is a trauma response?
Wait, what? Isn’t not wanting to hurt people a good thing? Why on earth would you say it is a trauma response?
Healing From Relational Trauma: The Process of Unraveling and Re-Knitting Yourself
During World War Two when supplies were scarce, people would commonly unravel old sweaters, wash and straighten the wool, and then reknit it into new garments. This, I think, can be an interesting metaphor for the healing process.
During World War Two when supplies were scarce, people would commonly unravel old sweaters, wash and straighten the wool, and then reknit it into new garments. This, I think, can be an interesting metaphor for the healing process.
Is Guilt Keeping You Stuck?
I have become a bit obsessed with the Reddit thread, AITA, (aka Am I The A-hole?)
.I have become a bit obsessed with the Reddit thread, AITA, (aka Am I The A-hole?)
What Is Trauma?
Is the word “trauma” being thrown around too lightly these days?
Is the word “trauma” being thrown around too lightly these days?
The Way Out of Narcissistic Relationships Is to Stop Understanding
….but perhaps, begin to really understand.
….but perhaps, begin to really understand.
Being Victimized Is Different From Being a Victim
Most targets of narcissistic abuse have, at some point or the other, been asked why got into it, put up with it, and/or were targeted.
Most targets of narcissistic abuse have, at some point or the other, been asked why got into it, put up with it, and/or were targeted.
How to Get Rid of a Narcissist in Your Organization
They actually love learning how you feel and how their toxic behavior has impacted you–not because they care, but because it gives them more insight into how to get under your skin.
They actually love learning how you feel and how their toxic behavior has impacted you–not because they care, but because it gives them more insight into how to get under your skin.
What We Needed to Survive Is Not What We Need to Thrive
All too often targets of narcissistic abuse blame themselves (or are blamed) for their own behavior.
All too often targets of narcissistic abuse blame themselves (or are blamed) for their own behavior.
Including Yourself in Love
I used to think I should project love in front of me, from my heart.
I used to think I should project love in front of me, from my heart.
It’s Okay to Need Each Other
It’s time to share our secrets and take down the walls that keep us alone and apart.
It’s time to share our secrets and take down the walls that keep us alone and apart.