Harnessing the monomyth to create profound relationship change.
Ground Control: The Art of Heartfelt Empathic Listening
Six ways to let your partner’s words land.
Six ways to let your partner’s words land.
The Four Gateways to Intimacy
Connecting from the bottom up.
Connecting from the bottom up.
Present-Tense Your Intimate Communication
Don’t miss the present of vulnerability.
Don’t miss the present of vulnerability.
Ready to Play This Valentine’s Day?
Our top 10 tips for (play) dates.
Our top 10 tips for (play) dates.
Three Ways to Make More Love With Your Partner
Couple through mind, heart, and body.
Couple through mind, heart, and body.
The Circle of Differentiation: How to Exit the Drama Triangle
The drama triangle occurs in part when people struggle expressing clear boundaries, wrestle with asking for clear and explicit help, and have a core belief that others can’t take care of themselves.
The drama triangle occurs in part when people struggle expressing clear boundaries, wrestle with asking for clear and explicit help, and have a core belief that others can’t take care of themselves.
How Psychological Patriarchy Creates Hierarchical Relationships
Relational equilibrium will help you overcome the implicit hierarchy hurting your relationship.
Relational equilibrium will help you overcome the implicit hierarchy hurting your relationship.
All Is Fair in Love and War?
An Israeli couples therapist reflects on marriage in wartime.
An Israeli couples therapist reflects on marriage in wartime.
The Playful Parenting Approach
There is no hack.
There is no hack.
Five Reasons Parents Should Prioritize Their Marriage
Yes, sometimes even over the children.
Yes, sometimes even over the children.
Why Is it So Hard for Us to Believe Our Partner’s Changes?
The natural/fake dichotomy.
The natural/fake dichotomy.
Relational Priming
How to help your relationship win.
How to help your relationship win.
The New Relational Hope Is…
Choice.
Choice.
Three Words to Help You Regulate
Many partners fall into what is called the fool’s choice: Tell your truth or be in a relationship. Choose.
Many partners fall into what is called the fool’s choice: Tell your truth or be in a relationship. Choose.
Stop Over-Apologizing!
It’s hurting your relationship.
It’s hurting your relationship.