How to leverage the four types of “sorry” in your relationship.
Your Wish Is Not My Command
How to escape the symbiotic belief that’s confining your relationship.
How to escape the symbiotic belief that’s confining your relationship.
Marriage as a Playground
The best metaphor for relationships — and it actually invigorates your life.
The best metaphor for relationships — and it actually invigorates your life.
The Three Relationships Within Every Marriage
Lovers. Friends. Partners.
Lovers. Friends. Partners.
How to Blow Your Mind
The secret, surprising recipe for personal growth in relationships.
The secret, surprising recipe for personal growth in relationships.
‘Give Me More.’
Learn to enjoy positive anxiety in order to grow in your relationship.
Learn to enjoy positive anxiety in order to grow in your relationship.
Three Words That Can Equalize Your Relationship
“In my experience…”
“In my experience…”
The Three Big Threats to Relationships
Boredom, fights, and “thirds” lead to couples therapy — unless you master them.
Boredom, fights, and “thirds” lead to couples therapy — unless you master them.
An Honest Letter From the Couple’s Therapist You’re Not Seeing
Best you know what you’re (not) getting into.
Best you know what you’re (not) getting into.
The Third Party That Every Marriage Needs
Every couple needs a little external help — the power of The Third.
Every couple needs a little external help — the power of The Third.
How Forgetting Can Damage a Relationship
Do you or your partner inevitably forget things that may be important to your partner in the relationship? Anniversaries, birthdays, fights, arguments, promises, errands?
Do you or your partner inevitably forget things that may be important to your partner in the relationship? Anniversaries, birthdays, fights, arguments, promises, errands?
It’s Not That Important to Me
The surprisingly simple sentence that will set you (and your relationship) free.
The surprisingly simple sentence that will set you (and your relationship) free.
3 Ways to Argue More Constructively, and Make up More Warmly
How to turn your disputes into relational “diamonds.”
How to turn your disputes into relational “diamonds.”
Don’t Miss the Point of Disappointment
Embrace the blow instead of sidestepping it.
Embrace the blow instead of sidestepping it.
‘Let It Land’ and Open Yourself to Your Partner
How to accept, influence and deepen your relationship.
How to accept, influence and deepen your relationship.
Cynicism and Sarcasm — The Joke’s Always on You
How to be less “funny” and more vulnerable.
How to be less “funny” and more vulnerable.