Yes, sometimes even over the children.
Why Is it So Hard for Us to Believe Our Partner’s Changes?
The natural/fake dichotomy.
The natural/fake dichotomy.
Relational Priming
How to help your relationship win.
How to help your relationship win.
The New Relational Hope Is…
Choice.
Choice.
Three Words to Help You Regulate
Many partners fall into what is called the fool’s choice: Tell your truth or be in a relationship. Choose.
Many partners fall into what is called the fool’s choice: Tell your truth or be in a relationship. Choose.
Stop Over-Apologizing!
It’s hurting your relationship.
It’s hurting your relationship.
‘What Kind of Apology Is This?!’
How to leverage the four types of “sorry” in your relationship.
How to leverage the four types of “sorry” in your relationship.
Your Wish Is Not My Command
How to escape the symbiotic belief that’s confining your relationship.
How to escape the symbiotic belief that’s confining your relationship.
Marriage as a Playground
The best metaphor for relationships — and it actually invigorates your life.
The best metaphor for relationships — and it actually invigorates your life.
The Three Relationships Within Every Marriage
Lovers. Friends. Partners.
Lovers. Friends. Partners.
How to Blow Your Mind
The secret, surprising recipe for personal growth in relationships.
The secret, surprising recipe for personal growth in relationships.
‘Give Me More.’
Learn to enjoy positive anxiety in order to grow in your relationship.
Learn to enjoy positive anxiety in order to grow in your relationship.
Three Words That Can Equalize Your Relationship
“In my experience…”
“In my experience…”
The Three Big Threats to Relationships
Boredom, fights, and “thirds” lead to couples therapy — unless you master them.
Boredom, fights, and “thirds” lead to couples therapy — unless you master them.
An Honest Letter From the Couple’s Therapist You’re Not Seeing
Best you know what you’re (not) getting into.
Best you know what you’re (not) getting into.
The Third Party That Every Marriage Needs
Every couple needs a little external help — the power of The Third.
Every couple needs a little external help — the power of The Third.