Could it be that …. we men have been set up to fail in love?
You’re Hurt. I’m Angry. Now What? W/ Figs O’Sullivan
In this episode we talk about conflict, about the myth of men’s emotional sensitivity; we talk a lot about empathy, why it matters, pathways to experiencing it, and how to create connection in moments where both partners are triggered and upset.
In this episode we talk about conflict, about the myth of men’s emotional sensitivity; we talk a lot about empathy, why it matters, pathways to experiencing it, and how to create connection in moments where both partners are triggered and upset.
The Most Essential (And Overlooked) Boundary for Healthy Relationships
A few years ago, I was shocked to discover I’d spent a lifetime (Unknowingly) Allowing one especially critical boundary to be violated by the women I loved, over and over.
A few years ago, I was shocked to discover I’d spent a lifetime (Unknowingly) Allowing one especially critical boundary to be violated by the women I loved, over and over.
The Heart Knows W/ Arjuna O’Neal
His story of being shot, his practices around forgiveness, and how he stays in his heart even in the face of men and women, including police, who may be targeting him because of his skin tone.
His story of being shot, his practices around forgiveness, and how he stays in his heart even in the face of men and women, including police, who may be targeting him because of his skin tone.
Don’t Let Ambition Ruin Your Happiness W/ Brenden (Bam!) Durell
Bam and I talk about our cross-cultural experiences of happiness, how ambition often gets in the way; the gift of disappointment and the healing power of cacao.
Bam and I talk about our cross-cultural experiences of happiness, how ambition often gets in the way; the gift of disappointment and the healing power of cacao.
Stop Fixing, Start Connecting (And Save Your Relationship)
We’re taught to solve problems, meet at the level of mind, fix things there.
We’re taught to solve problems, meet at the level of mind, fix things there.
The Power of Stopping (Before Starting) W/ Tommy Rosen
Our collective awakenings inspired by coronavirus.
Our collective awakenings inspired by coronavirus.
How to Date (And Love) Authentically, Powerfully W/ Joshua Hathaway and Robert Schwenkler
In this episode we talk about both the challenges and the rewards of being authentic and vulnerable while dating – which applies to long-term relationships.
In this episode we talk about both the challenges and the rewards of being authentic and vulnerable while dating – which applies to long-term relationships.
Your Divine Appointment (When the Worst Thing Becomes the Best Thing) W/ Rev James Trapp
We talk about the power of the mind to create your reality and to meaningfully participate in and truly serve in helpful ways, today’s increasingly fragmenting and chaotic world.
We talk about the power of the mind to create your reality and to meaningfully participate in and truly serve in helpful ways, today’s increasingly fragmenting and chaotic world.
The One Shift in Communication (That Saves Relationships)
“When someone comes to you with their pain, they’re not asking you to decide if their experience is valid.” ~ Silvy Khoucasian
“When someone comes to you with their pain, they’re not asking you to decide if their experience is valid.” ~ Silvy Khoucasian
The Single Most Destructive Cause of Relationship Stress: Resisting Feelings
For years I couldn’t feel my feelings, and my intimate relationships suffered awfully as a result.
For years I couldn’t feel my feelings, and my intimate relationships suffered awfully as a result.
Why Men Need Personal Growth Work (With Other Men) W/ Sascha Lewis
Our conversation is more a deep dive into the transformative power of men’s work, of learning to trust other men.
Our conversation is more a deep dive into the transformative power of men’s work, of learning to trust other men.
A Man Without a Father’s Praise (Never Feels Successful Enough)
I’ve discovered a profound connection between the enduring absence of a man’s peace-of-mind and the enduring absence of praise from a father – or any male-elder’s praise.
I’ve discovered a profound connection between the enduring absence of a man’s peace-of-mind and the enduring absence of praise from a father – or any male-elder’s praise.
Why a Man Can Leave Many Times (A Woman Only Leaves Once)
I’ve seen it countless times: A man can leave a relationship and return, over and over, where a woman can only leave once.
I’ve seen it countless times: A man can leave a relationship and return, over and over, where a woman can only leave once.
Men Take Responsibility (For Our Actions)
There’s a reason the people who stormed our nation’s capital, who now take public pride in sowing terror in our community, call themselves “proud boys” and not proud men:
There’s a reason the people who just stormed our nation’s capital, who now take public pride in sowing terror in our community, call themselves “proud boys” and not proud men:
One Essential Key to Relationship Success (Don’t Trust Your Conclusions)
Don’t believe your conclusions. Instead, feel what you’re feeling.
Don’t believe your conclusions. Instead, feel what you’re feeling.