There’s a reason the people who just stormed our nation’s capital, who now take public pride in sowing terror in our community, call themselves “proud boys” and not proud men:
One Essential Key to Relationship Success (Don’t Trust Your Conclusions)
Don’t believe your conclusions. Instead, feel what you’re feeling.
Don’t believe your conclusions. Instead, feel what you’re feeling.
Men Need Safe Places To Feel (Angry)
We’ve only ever seen anger used to hurt people.
We’ve only ever seen anger used to hurt people.
Men, She Needs to Feel You Safe (to Trust You)
MEN … Whether or not you think she has good reason to DISTRUST you, nature didn’t evolve a woman to believe your words, or even your recent past behavior.
MEN … Whether or not you think she has good reason to DISTRUST you, nature didn’t evolve a woman to believe your words, or even your recent past behavior.
We Men Must Learn How to Grieve (Everything)
I’ve found that allowing myself to grieve – to feel my anger, and my sadness – helps immensely with any experience of loss, whether significant or mundane.
I’ve found that allowing myself to grieve – to feel my anger, and my sadness – helps immensely with any experience of loss, whether significant or mundane.
Are We Making History? Or Simply Being Swallowed up by It?
There are no guarantees either way, so I might as well walk the path that feels good.
There are no guarantees either way, so I might as well walk the path that feels good.
An Intimate Relationship Changes You
Ignore all advice saying otherwise.
Ignore all advice saying otherwise.
‘It’s Only Difficult If You Tell Yourself It’s Difficult’
It’s tempting and popular to label a lot of what we humans deal with as “difficult”.
It’s tempting and popular to label a lot of what we humans deal with as “difficult”.
The World Doesn’t Need Your Playing Safe
What are we so afraid of?
What are we so afraid of?
It’s Easy to Lose Your Way (and Find it, Too)
Despite having most everything I wanted, I would often feel painfully diminished inside.
Despite having most everything I wanted, I would often feel painfully diminished inside.
A Man Divided Causes Stress in His Partner
Throughout my 20s and 30s, I often stayed in relationships I was deeply divided about staying in.
Throughout my 20s and 30s, I often stayed in relationships I was deeply divided about staying in.
Don’t Make This One Mistake in Every Relationship Argument
This happens in all relationships, straight or otherwise. It’s a masculine-feminine dynamic, not a man-woman dynamic.
This happens in all relationships, straight or otherwise. It’s a masculine-feminine dynamic, not a man-woman dynamic.
What is an Awakening Man?
An “Awakening Man” wants a woman who will speak her truth to him, a woman who knows men aren’t equipped to read minds or even not-so-subtle clues.
An “Awakening Man” wants a woman who will speak her truth to him, a woman who knows men aren’t equipped to read minds or even not-so-subtle clues.
‘I Don’t Want Drama’ (Beware Of The Man Who Says This)
Every man, in his deepest heart, aches to be held accountable to showing up fully in his life, and fully for love.
Every conscious man, in his deepest heart, ACHES to be held accountable to showing up fully in his life, and fully for love.
Find a Great Relationship (By Committing to Being Single)
The most important relationship of all is TO YOURSELF.
The most important relationship of all is TO YOURSELF.
3 Categories of Male Sexual Disorientation
Most men are heavily burdened by the sexual shame and disorientation that runs rampant through our modern world. What we do inside that shame and disorientation is tragic for everyone.
Most men are heavily burdened by the sexual shame and disorientation that runs rampant through our modern world. What we do inside that shame and disorientation is tragic for everyone.















