At first I was deterred, now I know that it gives me a pattern! It means it’s possible!
How to Get Off of The Treadmill of Self-Doubt
“I feel like I’m on a treadmill – like I’m not going anywhere.”
How I Ask For Help (And Usually Get It)
I AM HUMAN. First, I start with this. I am not some hero out of Greek or Hollywood mythology. I am a man with flaws (and strengths) and I need a hand sometimes to get through this ridiculous existence.
Numbness and How to Not Feel It
It sounds oxymoronic, but not feeling numbness is the key to unlocking success in health, wealth, and relationships… so why is it so hard for manly men to feel?
How Guys Go From Tough and Alone to Evolved and Accountable
I work with men on personal transformation and I’ve seen some incredible leaps. I’ve also heard a lot of the same stories and fears from my clients… here are some common points I hear a lot.
Would It Be Okay If Life Got Easier?
We have been told that pain equals gain – subtly and blatantly – since the day we are born…
3 Ways to Be A Better Man at Work
If you’ve ever felt like your identity at work didn’t click with your identity outside of the office… here are some steps to help you be a better man at work (and at home).
The SuperChicken Model of Leadership
We badly need a better way to work and a richer way to live.
Why Do Ambitious Women Have Flat Heads?
Dame Stephanie Shirley is the most successful tech entrepreneur you never heard of.
Call for Submissions: Stories About Your Brothers
We’re looking to publish stories about brothers (biological or otherwise).
If you are interested in sharing your ideas about what it means to be a good brother, or what fraternities could be doing differently, or what the brotherhood of mankind could do better, or maybe you just have a story about the city of brotherly love… send me a short 3 sentence pitch
Grace and Frankie Take On Loneliness and Sexual Identity Crisis
The new Netflix comedy “Grace and Frankie” is ostensibly a show about the coming out of two septuagenerian men (played by Martin Sheen and Sam Waterston) and the fallout of their divorces from their wives (Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin). Yes, a sexual identity crisis triggers the show, and an animated wedding cake opens the show as if it will be a dramedy farce; but the meat of the story is really about how two women come to terms with loneliness and betrayal in their old age. It is challenging, often hilarious, and incredibly bold.
5 TED Talks That Will Make You a Better Man
You’ll be outside the box, less violent, more culturally aware, with a manspace, and less numb if you watch these videos.
7 Words That Can Make You Feel Less Isolated
How to feel less numb and isolated personally, and how you can help end the racism and sexual violence that stems from men’s fear of otherness.
I Got Called An ‘Intellectual’ - Should I Be Worried?
It never occurred to me that there was a name for being curious and liking books.
How to Get Booked for a TED Talk in 5 Steps
In 48 hours I’ll be speaking at TEDxSMU… and I’d like to share how this happened in case you are looking for your path to TED
Call for Submissions: Things You Wish Men Knew About Working with Women
If you are reading this on the Good Men Project, chances are you dig equality among the sexes.






