John and Ben fell in love, and then Ben left for his second tour in Afghanistan. John talks to Emily Heist Moss about Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, and the tangible impact on soldiers serving overseas and their loved ones at home.
Why Is ‘Going Down’ Often a One-Way Street?
Emily Heist Moss surveyed friends, strangers, and GMP readers about cunnilingus. What she found was intimacy, insecurity and the “ick factor.”
Do You Hope Your Child Will Be Straight?
Emily Heist Moss ponders how otherwise liberal parents can fear that their child might, in fact, be gay.
How Old Is Too Old? How Young Is Too Young?
Emily Moss Heist looks at dating from the perspective of age brackets, internet formulas and life stage compatibility.
Five Rules for Happier Hunting in the World of Online Dating
They might not help you meet your soulmate, but these five rules certainly won’t make your online dating experience any worse.
Is Porn a Relationship Dealbreaker? Depends on Whom You Ask
Do I care if my partner watches pornography? The short answer is no. The long answer is no, but.
Do I care if my partner watches pornography? The short answer is no. The long answer is no, but.
Splitting the Check: Yes, Please!
There’s no reason (except for convention) that men should pay for women on a first date. And for me, convention is not enough.
Remember When Courting Happened Face-to-Face?
Call me old-fashioned (you will), but I think there’s value in awkwardness. So forget Twitter and Gchat and just talk to me.
The Dick-tionary
How to Become a Man
Anthony Di Vittorio runs Youth Guidance Becoming a Man, a Chicago counseling program that fosters healthy masculine ideals among at-risk teen boys.