Embed from Getty Images—Heather,My husband and I are a bit stuck and I could use your help navigating my way out. We are a large family and my husband carries the bulk of the financial burden.Things have been quite stressful lately, as one of our children has been quite ill. To cope, he becomes hyper-focused…
“When one person in a relationship has a problem, two people have a problem.”
“Anything you respond with is for you, not the other person.”
“It comes down to this: You have to want something more than you are afraid of it.”
By recognizing that the real problem is that a large portion of our population is traumatized and no one knows how to deal.
I’m not telling you that you have to have hope. Just allow me mine.
Accepting your submissions. We know it will take more than this PSA to change things for men. But what?
Don’t act like you’re the problem until he tells you that you are. Don’t assume that you know him better than he knows himself.
This is going to hurt and you are not going to want to, but you have to move. This is how.
Can’t we just date like it’s 1989 and get to know one another before we talk about getting naked?
This is a cautionary tale. When making 100K ceases to matter.
While you think about your answer, check out this one found on Facebook.
We never see the fires that weren’t set. This is what to look for.
“You don’t get to find out the ending to your story when you’re stuck being a chapter in his.”
“I’m hurt and confused. I need an answer that will bring me peace of mind.”
He’ll never get those first two months back and this won’t be his last sacrifice.