You know it doesn’t work when one or both of you have one foot in and one foot out. Heather Gray guides you on what to do next.
Is “Tradition” What’s Wrong With Marriage?
How are you defying the odds of marriage? What are your traditions that are defying tradition? Now collecting submissions.
Why Most Marriage Advice Today Gets It Wrong
Heather Gray thinks we tell people what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear.
The Hard Truth Behind Marriages that Last
There isn’t a list of things that these couples do differently. There’s one difficult thing they choose to accept.
So Many Questions. Just One Answer.
Do you call? Do you text? How soon is too soon? The dating question doesn’t matter. Heather Gray’s answer is the same.
What Should Your Vows Have Been?
Most of the promises we make don’t reflect real-life love beyond the ceremony. If you could re-write your vows, what would they be?
What Men Need to Forget In Order to Be Happy
For some, it will be everything they’ve been taught about what “real” or “good” men do and are.
Men Aren’t Stupid and Women Aren’t Crazy
If we want men to stop playing the “crazy” card and expect women to stop implying that men are stupid, we have to relinquish the power we’ve held in our respective gender roles.
The Most Loving Thing a Woman Can Do for a Man
It can also be the hardest but Heather Gray shows you how.
It can also be the hardest but Heather Gray shows you how.
The Hardest Part Wasn’t Hearing He’d Never Walk Again
“I know that I can go anywhere and do anything I want, anytime I want to. I just need to leave my husband behind to do it.”
Husband Surprises Heartbroken Wife
This couple’s videographer lost their wedding reception footage. So what did the husband do?
How My Husband (and Chinese Takeout) Saved Christmas Eve
Heather Gray remembers a Christmas Eve that could have been a disaster and turned out to be amazing.
How’d You Bring Your Marriage from the Brink?
Not every marriage can be saved. If yours was, GMP wants to learn from your experience. Now accepting submissions.
The Bus Hit Him. Skiing Saved Him.
Sports can be a cause of discord in marriage, but for Heather Gray and her husband, sports preserved their union—and her husband’s life.
She Was Raped Three Years Ago. How Do I Help Her Today?
Heather Gray helps a GMP reader who wants to support a survivor.
Don’t Divorce Yourself From the Holidays: Advice for Divorced Dads
Don’t just survive the holiday season. Use these ten tips to make memories and new traditions with your kids.














