Maybe your marriage sucks because you don’t really know your spouse
Must Women Leave Men in Order to Get Them to Change?
We find answers to our problems when we ask the right questions.
We find answers to our problems when we ask the right questions.
An Open Letter to Shitty Husbands: It’s All About Trust
I don’t believe anything erodes relationship trust more frequently or consistently (among otherwise very decent, ‘trustworthy’ people) than an invalidation habit.
I don’t believe anything erodes relationship trust more frequently or consistently (among otherwise very decent, ‘trustworthy’ people) than an invalidation habit.
How I Avoided Bitterness After Divorce
To me, there’s no choice at all. We can live in the darkness, or try our best to light it up.
To me, there’s no choice at all. We can live in the darkness, or try our best to light it up.
Why Men Fall Short in Marriage (and How to Help Them)
Ladies, I think men need your help.
Maybe I was wrong. When I said that men have the most power to save their marriages or long-term relationships. The thinking was, men have so much room for improvement, that if they can get some of these little things right—these little things that make their wives or girlfriends feel unloved, unsafe, and insecure—that men…
The In-Laws
The losses in divorce are great.
The losses in divorce are great.
Why Relationship Arguments Can Actually Be Good Things (Video)
Relationship conflict is not this horrible thing that must be eliminated at all costs, but instead something to embrace as a necessary component of building sustainable trust with the person I’ve promised to love forever (or really—with just about anyone).
Relationship conflict is not this horrible thing that must be eliminated at all costs, but instead something to embrace as a necessary component of building sustainable trust with the person I’ve promised to love forever (or really—with just about anyone).
Do You Really Know Your Spouse or Relationship Partner? (Video)
If you don’t even know what does or does not hurt someone else, how can they trust you to act in their best interest?
If you don’t even know what does or does not hurt someone else, how can they trust you to act in their best interest?
‘Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff’ Is Trash Relationship Advice (Video)
Because what you consider a small thing, and what someone else considers a small thing will not always align.
Because what you consider a small thing, and what someone else considers a small thing will not always align.
Why Your Spouse Is Never Happy No Matter What You Do (Video)
Many people (usually men) type into internet search engines: “my wife is never happy no matter what I do.”
Many people (usually men) type into internet search engines: “my wife is never happy no matter what I do.”
Rejection, Hypocrisy and Why ‘There’s No Way to Know’
"This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships" author Matthew Fray answers all our questions.
“This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships” author Matthew Fray answers all our questions.
The Missing Ingredient That Ruins Valentine’s Day (and Every Other Day)
She, or he, wants to be considered because they are a person.
She, or he, wants to be considered because they are a person.
What I Should Have Said
Matthew Fray on Three Questions, Three Drinks with Chris Mikolay
Matthew Fray on Three Questions, Three Drinks with Chris Mikolay
Introducing My New Book ‘This Is How Your Marriage Ends’ Now Available for Preorder
Matthew Fray teaches us a hopeful way to approach saving relationships.
Matthew Fray teaches us a hopeful approach to saving relationships.
Are You Afraid When the Elevator Doors Open?
We don’t hurt the people we love because we’re bad.
We don’t hurt the people we love because we’re bad.
The Two Reoccuring Moments That Destroy Trust in Relationships
We destroy trust—and as a result, our relationships—by recycling two moments over and over again.
We destroy trust—and as a result, our relationships—by recycling two moments over and over again.