Relationship conflict is not this horrible thing that must be eliminated at all costs, but instead something to embrace as a necessary component of building sustainable trust with the person I’ve promised to love forever (or really—with just about anyone).
Do You Really Know Your Spouse or Relationship Partner? (Video)
If you don’t even know what does or does not hurt someone else, how can they trust you to act in their best interest?
If you don’t even know what does or does not hurt someone else, how can they trust you to act in their best interest?
‘Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff’ Is Trash Relationship Advice (Video)
Because what you consider a small thing, and what someone else considers a small thing will not always align.
Because what you consider a small thing, and what someone else considers a small thing will not always align.
Why Your Spouse Is Never Happy No Matter What You Do (Video)
Many people (usually men) type into internet search engines: “my wife is never happy no matter what I do.”
Many people (usually men) type into internet search engines: “my wife is never happy no matter what I do.”
Rejection, Hypocrisy and Why ‘There’s No Way to Know’
"This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships" author Matthew Fray answers all our questions.
“This Is How Your Marriage Ends: A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships” author Matthew Fray answers all our questions.
The Missing Ingredient That Ruins Valentine’s Day (and Every Other Day)
She, or he, wants to be considered because they are a person.
She, or he, wants to be considered because they are a person.
What I Should Have Said
Matthew Fray on Three Questions, Three Drinks with Chris Mikolay
Matthew Fray on Three Questions, Three Drinks with Chris Mikolay
Introducing My New Book ‘This Is How Your Marriage Ends’ Now Available for Preorder
Matthew Fray teaches us a hopeful way to approach saving relationships.
Matthew Fray teaches us a hopeful approach to saving relationships.
Are You Afraid When the Elevator Doors Open?
We don’t hurt the people we love because we’re bad.
We don’t hurt the people we love because we’re bad.
The Two Reoccuring Moments That Destroy Trust in Relationships
We destroy trust—and as a result, our relationships—by recycling two moments over and over again.
We destroy trust—and as a result, our relationships—by recycling two moments over and over again.
Taking the Wheel vs. Destroying Our Marriages on Autopilot
The alternative is to believe that the two of you are intentionally sabotaging one another and the relationship.
The alternative is to believe that the two of you are intentionally sabotaging one another and the relationship.
Where To Find Solutions to Your Relationship Problems
The places you wouldn’t think to look.
The places you wouldn’t think to look.
Save Your Marriage Using the Monster-Under-the-Bed Theory
We can make sure that when they’re hurt, or sad, or afraid, that they know they’re not alone.
We can make sure that when they’re hurt, or sad, or afraid, that they know they’re not alone.
What Being Drugged and Robbed Taught Me About Rape Culture
I kept thinking and saying: Thank God it was me and not her.
I kept thinking and saying: Thank God it was me and not her.
I Was Drugged, Robbed and Left for Dead in Las Vegas and I Didn’t Even Get the Stupid T-Shirt
They’re still out there, and they’re going to do this again to other people.
They’re still out there, and they’re going to do this again to other people.
The Idea That Would Have Saved My Marriage and Might Save Yours
My wife wanted to feel loved. Cherished. Respected. Desired.
My wife wanted to feel loved. Cherished. Respected. Desired.