Does a guy automatically stop being attractive to his wife because he proves reliable and safe during their marriage?
What Men Should Learn from Women Choosing Other Women
Women seem to be choosing other women over men with greater frequency. Men should try to understand why.
Women seem to be choosing other women over men with greater frequency. Men should try to understand why.
Commitment Phobia: When Relationship Avoidance Isn’t Dumb
People who have suffered emotional trauma from divorce or failed relationships are often afraid to feel that hurt again.
People who have suffered emotional trauma from divorce or failed relationships are often afraid to feel that hurt again.
Writing a Letter Won’t Convince Him to Stay and Your Life Won’t Be Better if He Does
Abandonment hurts, even when you deserve it.
Abandonment hurts, even when you deserve it,
Do You Want to Dance? Or Do You Want to Dance?
I’m probably a sucky dancer. Like, to people who evaluate dance quality.
I’m probably a sucky dancer. Like, to people who evaluate dance quality.
The Thing Divorced Parents Fear Most
Here's the thing about control.
Here’s the thing about control.
How Colorblindness Can Destroy Your Marriage
What’s more damaging to relationships: Inventing problems that don’t actually exist, or denying the existence of those that do?
What’s more damaging to relationships: Inventing problems that don’t actually exist, or denying the existence of those that do?
The Truth Is What We Save From the Fire
"Psychologists say most people devote more energy to avoiding bad feelings than chasing good ones. I believe them."
“Psychologists say most people devote more energy to avoiding bad feelings than chasing good ones.
I believe them.”
Having the Same Goals Won’t Save Your Relationship
Going the same direction doesn't mean you'll arrive together.
Going the same direction doesn’t mean you’ll arrive together.
The Magic of Boundaries: Date Well, Marry the Right Person and Love Hard Forever
Boundaries are magical---as long as they are clear.
Boundaries are magical—as long as they are clear.
The Illusion of Incorrectness: The One Time Seeing Other Women Can Save Your Marriage
Surely, most of you have seen this famous optical illusion before. Many of us can see “both” women — the young woman facing the other direction, as well as the large-nosed old woman. But neither is "incorrect".
Surely, most of you have seen this famous optical illusion before. Many of us can see “both” women — the young woman facing the other direction, as well as the large-nosed old woman. But neither is “incorrect”.
The Taxonomy of Married Men
First we took Husbands, and split them into two groups — Good Men and Bad Men.
First we took Husbands, and split them into two groups — Good Men and Bad Men.
No, the Affair Didn’t Cause the Divorce
The root cause of the marriage failure goes ignored or undetected.
The root cause of the marriage failure goes ignored or undetected.
Why People Divorce and Miss the Misery
Even the worst marriage I could have ever imagined felt better than feeling (justified or not) abandoned at home combined with losing half of my young son’s childhood.
Even the worst marriage I could have ever imagined felt better than feeling (justified or not) abandoned at home combined with losing half of my young son’s childhood.
Diagnosing Relationship Failure Is Not for the Self-Assured
It was a miscalculation or a festering problem too small to notice, until everything fell apart, even when everything seemed to be functioning perfectly to the only people who could have done something about it.
It was a miscalculation or a festering problem too small to notice, until everything fell apart, even when everything seemed to be functioning perfectly to the only people who could have done something about it.
How To Have a Good-Enough Relationship
'Enough' is whatever two people agree to in a relationship.
Enough’ is whatever two people agree to in a relationship.