Bad News—You Don’t Get to Dictate What Matters to Other People
Male Dishonesty and Divorce: Choosing the Man Card over Succeeding Like a Girl
Men want their "man cards". Even if it kills them.
Men want their “man cards”. Even if it kills them.
How To Feel Okay About the Guy Sleeping With Your Ex
In a life where I had to face total loss of control and influence over who got to be in my son’s and ex-wife’s lives, I was gifted a relationship where I don’t have to worry about whether they will be safe.
In a life where I had to face total loss of control and influence over who got to be in my son’s and ex-wife’s lives, I was gifted a relationship where I don’t have to worry about whether they will be safe.
Throwing Stones in Our Glass Houses
One minute, you’re raging. And you say or do something that falls in the “I didn’t mean it” category once regret replaces the anger.
One minute, you’re raging. And you say or do something that falls in the “I didn’t mean it” category once regret replaces the anger.
The Worst Thing Wives Do
Long before I was accidentally (but egregiously) a shitty husband, I was just a young guy trying to figure things out.
Long before I was accidentally (but egregiously) a shitty husband, I was just a young guy trying to figure things out.
Hope Changes Everything
Because no one ever handed out the How to Deal with Major Life Trauma manual.
Because no one ever handed out the How to Deal with Major Life Trauma manual.
My Story Is Your Story (Even When It’s Not)
Marriages break because neglectful spouses devolve---from loved one, to roommate, to stranger you want to face-punt.
Marriages break because neglectful spouses devolve—from loved one, to roommate, to stranger you want to face-punt.
How to Never Have Bad Days
We have two choices: Be afraid. Or embrace opportunity.
We have two choices: Be afraid. Or embrace opportunity.
New Places and Things Make You Grow
I’ve seen less than 1 percent of all there is to see.
I’ve seen less than 1 percent of all there is to see.
Finding Yourself After Divorce (and Other Trauma)
There’s no shortcut to reclaiming your life.
There’s no shortcut to reclaiming your life.
You Are Biased and Selfish Without Realizing It
It doesn't "jive" because we'd just "assume" do it the wrong way.
It doesn’t “jive” because we’d just “assume” do it the wrong way.
How to Feel Successful, Increase Self-Esteem and Eliminate Envy
Who would you trade places with if you had to take all their baggage, too?
Who would you trade places with if you had to take all their baggage, too?
I Won’t Be Your Ally Because You’re Probably Doing it Wrong Like Me
It’s hard to find people who know how to see the subtlety of emotional abuse for what it is.
It’s hard to find people who know how to see the subtlety of emotional abuse for what it is.
This is Why Your Life Sucks
The importance of boundaries and values.
The importance of boundaries and values.
Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?
It depends on how you measure it.
It depends on how you measure it.
The Scary Truth about Divorce and Marriage
A modern day marriage theory: why good men can be bad husbands.
It wasn’t hard to spot the guys barreling toward divorce. The message was camouflaged in symbolism, so it makes sense to me that the point was lost on all the cretins. Most critical responses to the “dishes” post were rooted in a fundamental misunderstanding of what was read. A bunch of potentially well-meaning people internet-yelled:…