Women no longer need men. If guys want to find a partner, they must focus on being wanted.
About Simon Fokt, PhD
Is Masculinity Getting Less Democratic?
A lot of us grew up assuming democratic norms were basically stable: imperfect, contested, but ultimately self-repairing.
A lot of us grew up assuming democratic norms were basically stable: imperfect, contested, but ultimately self-repairing.
Men Are Stuck, Not Left Behind
Backlash against movements advocating for equality is a recurring phenomenon throughout history, fueled by the fear of losing traditions and societal norms.
Backlash against movements advocating for equality is a recurring phenomenon throughout history, fueled by the fear of losing traditions and societal norms.
‘What About Men?’ Reflections on a Crisis of Meaning
We need to create attractive alternatives to patriarchal masculinity and redesign systems that fuel insecurity.
We need to create attractive alternatives to patriarchal masculinity and redesign systems that fuel insecurity.
Is Dating Still Fun? On Men’s Loneliness
Dating apps, driven by engagement over resolution, can contribute to feelings of loneliness and hostility in romantic interactions.
Dating apps, driven by engagement over resolution, can contribute to feelings of loneliness and hostility in romantic interactions.
Be a Man, They Said
For the first time at such an event, I felt seen. I felt like someone gets it.
For the first time at such an event, I felt seen. I felt like someone gets it.
Time for New Men? Masculinity, Male Role Models and the Patriarchy
An in-depth discussion on masculinity, societal pressures faced by men, and exploring solutions for fostering healthier gender roles and relationships.
An in-depth discussion on masculinity, societal pressures faced by men, and exploring solutions for fostering healthier gender roles and relationships.
Stop Telling Men That Crying Is the Best Part of Gender Equality
Emotional Repression Is Harmful: Suppressing emotions leads to negative outcomes like rage, depression, and self-destruction, especially in men.
Emotional Repression Is Harmful: Suppressing emotions leads to negative outcomes like rage, depression, and self-destruction, especially in men.
How to Compliment a Woman
A short guide for guys who are confused and don’t want to do anything creepy.
This International Women’s Day: A short guide for guys who are confused and don’t want to do anything creepy.
On Being Desired
How ignorant of me to say I envy her experience!
How ignorant of me to say I envy her experience!
The Seven Magic Words Which Will Make You a Great Lover
They will make her feel she’s in good hands and give herself to you like never before.
They will make her feel she’s in good hands and give herself to you like never before.
Two Silent Frustrations That Can Tear Relationships Apart
People are often ashamed to acknowledge how important sex is to building and maintaining happy relationships.
People are often ashamed to acknowledge how important sex is to building and maintaining happy relationships.
Fighting Conservative Backlash: What You Need to Know
Conservatives are gaining momentum and aim to reverse liberal progress, prioritizing traditional values.
Conservatives are gaining momentum and aim to reverse liberal progress, prioritizing traditional values.
From Near-Death to New Life: A Tale of Love and Friendship
The van slipped off the jack and fell on my shoulder, crushing me to the ground.
The van slipped off the jack and fell on my shoulder, crushing me to the ground.
Three Things Which Prevent Men From Attracting Women
Are women’s standards too high these days? What is keeping guys from attracting women and keeping the relationships they want?
Are women’s standards too high these days? What is keeping guys from attracting women and keeping the relationships they want?
#NotAllWomen, or Have You Heard of Selection Bias?
Humans are different and women are humans.
Humans are different and women are humans.