Many people confuse honesty and truth. The Good Men Project’s Ethics Editor swears he knows the difference.
The Happiness Formula: A Simple Equation for Creating Bliss
It might seem crazy … but could there be a formula for happiness? Thomas Fiffer does the math.
5 Reasons Why Consent Doesn’t Come Naturally
Consent should be simple, right? Then why is it so confusing?
My Relationship Sucks. Could the Problem Be Me?
When there’s trouble at home, we’re quick to avoid blame and point the finger. But what if we’re the problem? These three questions can determine if you might be the primary cause of strife.
5 Words on Love That Will Make or Break Your Relationship
An ordinary object leads Thomas Fiffer to an extraordinary epiphany.
How to Achieve Lasting Peace: Mastering the Art of Reconciliation
To err is human; to forgive, divine; to reconcile, a gift.
The 3 Things a Man Fears Most: An Exposé of the Male Psyche
Men risk their lives serving in combat, fighting fires, and performing dangerous stunts, but we’re not fearless. Here are three non-life-threatening things that men find truly terrifying.
The Key to Preserving Your Emotional Health
Emotions don't respond to pain the way the body does. Understanding that can prevent a ton of heartache.
Emotions don’t respond to pain the way the body does. Understanding that can prevent a ton of heartache.
How to Tell the Difference Between a Boundary and a Threat
Sometimes it’s hard to know if someone is drawing a boundary or making a threat. Thomas Fiffer offers a framework to help make the distinction.
How Narcissists Devalue You Through the ‘Mean-Nice’ Cycle
Learn how narcissists keep partners off balance and stuck in relationships through the use of a behavior cycle that alternates between mean and nice.
You Can Move From Dating to Love With One Simple Change
Thomas Fiffer may have found the dating game-changer. Care to give it a try?
Thomas Fiffer may have found the dating game-changer. Care to give it a try?
7 Ways to Build Better Men
Men are good and want to be better. Thomas Fiffer offers seven ways men can improve their game.
6 Ways ‘Tough Guys’ Are Actually Weak
Thomas Fiffer redefines strength by finding the weakness in “tough guy” masculinity.
The Safety Net of Love
Many men can't imagine having someone who will catch them when they fall.
Many men can’t imagine having someone who will catch them when they fall.
I’ll Make Love With You, But Don’t Hug Me
Some men don’t like cuddling and hugging their partners, before, during, or after sex. A female reader asked us for answers on how to deal with it.
Taming Your Brain Through Mindfulness
Learn how to decrease your susceptibility to negative thought patterns.
Learn how to decrease your susceptibility to negative thought patterns.