“Sonny, true love is the greatest thing in the world – except for a nice MLT – mutton, lettuce, and tomato sandwich, where the mutton is nice and lean and the tomatoes are ripe. They’re so perky, I love that.” Miracle Max in The Princess Bride
We spend so much of our lives trying to find it, trying to keep it, or trying to get it back.
As much as we all want love, much of us spend a fair amount of time and energy making it go away. Not on purpose, of course, but the result is just the same.
What if we could all stop doing that? How would we all stop doing that?
What behaviors make someone unlovable for you? Have you fallen hard for someone, only to have one–or more–of these behaviors surface after it was too late? Did your love overcome that?
What behaviors do you think make you unlovable? Is it because someone told you they were ugly or do you not like them when you see them in someone else? How are you addressing them?
Do you push people away on purpose subconsciously? Perhaps as a test to make sure they’re going to stay? What happens when they fail the test?
How can you tell someone you love that they are driving you away?
How are men affected by a lack of love? What can men do to make love last? Why do men push people away?
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