He honestly has no idea why women left him, cheated, lied and disappeared. Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert, sees the reason as clear as day…
Question: I have struggled with relationships in my life and to be honest I have no idea why. I have nobody in my life who I can go and talk to about these issues, that is why I am reaching out to you. The only real relationship I had lasted 1 year and she left me for another guy my senior year of college.
I know part of it is I am picky and the other part I can’t seem to grasp. I just recently met an amazing girl after 3 weeks of texting she blew me off; I need some serious help and would appreciate any advice or feedback you can give me.
Answer: This is a unique experience for I actually got to talk to you about this in a complementary strategy session.
The session revealed the moments of trauma that are keeping you out of your body, spinning in your head, unable to see red flags, seeking approval from women and giving your noble badass power away.
To heal limiting beliefs is one thing… to heal one trauma let alone two traumas… that’s another. I am blessed, privileged and honored to hold space and give my healing gifts to many beautiful souls on this planet who have been through shocking atrocities…and return them to a place of safety, approval, connection and home within themselves… for THAT is the true intimate relationship from which all intimate relationships stem.
I would be honored to be that tender, healing, caring, safe, non judgmental, unconditionally loving facilitator of your transformation… so as to reveal the King within you.
And whenever you decide to do the work, even if you don’t decide to do the work… thank you for the spiritual practice of sitting in MY fire watching you suffer, knowing I can help, and letting you choose no.
As parents it’s tough to watch your kid frustrated not being able to tie their shoes. Some of us cave and tie them for them… yet then they’re 42 and still using velcro ;-). Others learn to breathe through discomfort and encourage our children… and watch them be victorious through the challenge, watch them learn to soothe themselves, focus and handle failure after failure until they succeed.
I yearn so much to help. And thank you for the practice of loving you in your pain, patiently, with endless blessings for exactly who you are.
Great love, Allana xoxo
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I relate to hm and what you said about not feeling “safe” is so on spot..I cant even reach orgasm if I dont feel safe, I understood it, but as a man it was very hard to explain to men what that mean bcz we trained to be physical. 5 years ago I was on top of the world, then I destroyed it all…if this gentleman does not accept his scar and learn how to manage he will end where I am today, unemployed, not a penny in my pocket. Just yesterday, i finally was able to get myself out… Read more »