Question: Allana, my wife and I are about to celebrate our ten year anniversary. Do you have any suggestions to make this anniversary EPIC? Answer: OMG this is one of my favorite questions to answer! First, I am so touched that you care! That you’ve reached out to ask my advice! That you want to put…
Talk About INDEPENDENCE. We just divorced, yet get along better than ever!
Should we have even gotten divorced in the first place Coach Allana? Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt believes THIS is what's going on...
Question: Coach Allana, my wife and I just signed divorce papers. Now, we’re getting along better than ever! Should we have gotten the divorce? Is it possible being free from each other is making us want each other more? Answer: Isn’t independence curious? We certainly don’t want codependent relationships or to be controlled or dominated…
My Girlfriend is Treating the new dog Like a CHILD!
"Is this some test to see if I'd be a good Dad or something?" Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert thinks it's something deeper...
Question: Ok Coach Allana, my girlfriend and I decided to take the big leap of faith in our relationship and we bought a dog. I want to emphasize DOG as you think we just adopted a KID! She treats the thing as if its a child and I treat it like it’s a fricken’ dog!…
Do ALL Women Want To Change Men?
"I am content with who I am! I'm not a fixer-upper!" Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert wonders if...
Question: Why are women so determined to fix a guy when they start dating someone? I am content with who I am, I’m not a fixer-upper! Do all women feel this desire? What does it fulfill for them? Answer: It’s a curious question given the blanket statement about women in general… Although I completely acknowledge that…
When You’re NOT Daddy’s Girl on Father’s Day
Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt responds to a reader's question about her own father...
Question: Allana, can you tell me more about your relationship with your Father? Normally a women who is talented with results in coaching/healing men to become a “noble badass” like you are, these women are a “Daddy’s Girl”. Yet I sense you aren’t, given what I’ve read in your newsletters. What gives? Answer: I suppose one way…
My GF is Always Late, Blames Me for Treating Her Like a Child. Help!
He's tried to explain mutual respect and courtesy, but she says he needs to be patient. Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert asks him to consider...
Question: My girlfriend is such a poor planner and is always late to everything but gets angry when she feels rushed. I have tried to explain to her that it is about respecting people’s time but she says I am talking to her like a child and people just need to be patient. Do you have…
I feel desperate for love, how can I change this fast?
My instincts keep telling me to wait for the right person but I end up jumping at the first woman that comes my way! Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt has some sage ideas...
Question: My instincts keep telling me to wait for the right person, stop being impatient, and just take it easy but I end up jumping at the first opportunity that comes my way! I am so desperate to find someone that I feel as I am willing to date the first woman that even glances at…
He was home for 5 hrs & didn’t even do the dishes!
"Is he truly inconsiderate or are most men just oblivious?" Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt invite her to consider...
Question: My husband is a good man but he is absorbed in his own world sometimes and it bothers me. I came home the other day and there were still dishes in the sink. He had been home for FIVE HOURS but never felt the need to do anything around the house. He will step over…
Turns out my Ex GF was Married With Kids!
While she was the only thing that ever made him happy, she also was married! Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt gets feisty...
Question: Coach, I went to surprise my old girlfriend when I realized she’s the only thing that ever made me happy – until I found out she was married with two kids! I couldn’t explain why I was there and it was just an awkward encounter. The crazy thing is, I feel as if she felt…
My GF used to love my sense of humor, but now she’s annoyed!
She thinks he's trying too hard. Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt wonders if...
She thinks he’s trying too hard. Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt wonders if…
My Wife’s Cheating On Me With A CoWorker
Should I have reconciled in the first place, or just left her? Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert wants to know this before throwing in the towel...
Question: About three weeks ago I learned that my wife was cheating on me with a coworker. She begged for forgiveness, and explained how she felt unloved, under appreciated, and so on. We made amends, but now when I look at her, I don’t see the woman I married. I think my marriage is over,…
My Wife’s Constantly Belittling Me!
She calls me names in front of friends and family members! Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert wonders ...
Question: My wife is constantly undermining me in front of our friends and family. She calls me names, she belittles me, and as you say, “takes away my power”. I have told her to stop but she doesn’t understand the issue. How can she be so blind? And how can she keep treating me like…
More Children or a Vasectomy? Who’s Choice Is It?
This couple is at a standoff regarding more children. Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert reminds them that...
Question: I want more children and my husband wants a vasectomy. Who has the power to make the final decision Allana? Answer: It sounds like you two are really at an impasse, a stand off, each pitted against one another. I imagine each of you feel very strongly about your point of you and your opinion.…
I’m Getting Back In The Game!
He's not looking for 'The One'. He wants a few 'trial runs' to get back on his feet. Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert believes...
Question: I am looking to get back into the game this year. What resources would you recommend to people who have not been dating in a while but aren’t looking for “the one” just a few trial runs to get back on their feet? Answer: I love that you’re looking to get back in the game this…
My Father-in-law Threatens Me Not To Hurt His Daughter
My Dad's just kidding around! says the wife, but this husband is living in FEAR. Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert suggests...
Question: My Father in law is a nice man, but every once in a while he gives me a subtle threat. If I ever hurt his daughter, I would regret it. We’ve been married for 10 yrs! I’ve told my wife. She say, He’s just kidding around. But it doesn’t feel like a joke. What…
My husband hates that I have male friends. Should I be ashamed?
He told me as long as he doesn't know about them, he'll put up with it. Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt cautions...
Question: My husband has an issue with me having male friends. His attitude is I can have them, as long as he doesn’t know about them. That just doesn’t seem right to me. I try to honor him by making sure all my friends are female but I don’t know if he is in the…