Question: Allana, I am having a hard time trying to find a balance between masculine and noble badass. My wife loves it when I take charge but at the same time, she wants me to be sensitive to her needs and feelings. I feel like when I take charge, I am too much man but…
My Husband Stormed Out at a Family Dinner Saying It Was OVER!
He said he can't do this anymore and walked out, only to call and apologize wanting to come home. Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert has some straight advice...
Question: Husband and wife happily married (well thought we were) for 20 years. Husband announces at FAMILY DINNER that he can’t do this anymore and walks out. Wife stuck at the table with his family and mine, left speechless, mortified, humiliated, and destroyed. Fast forward to a week later and husband has called to apologize…
My Wife is Glued to the Kids for Valentine’s Day!
My poor wife hasn't slept since 3 kids ago! I can't pry her away for V-Day! Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert has some ideas...
Question: I want to create a Valentine’s Day out for my wife but I can’t pry her away from the kids! We have twin girls and just had a little boy. My poor wife hasn’t slept since the girls were born! How can I get her to understand it is ok to take a break…
Intimacy Tips to LET GO of Destructive Old Relationship
Their last breakup was destructive, leaving them on the brink. Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert has the solution...because the internal always creates the external.
Question: What intimacy tips do you have for someone who has been emotionally unavailable for a really long time? My last breakup was destructive and left me on the brink. I am finally seeing someone else and I just can’t let go. Answer: I love your question… Intimacy can be broken down into the words ‘into me…
The Three Women I’m Dating ALL Want A Commitment!
Valentine's Day's soon. He's dating three beautiful creatures. Does he need to choose only one? Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt advises...
Question: Coach, I have been dating a few women at once (playing the field) and it seems that all of a sudden, each one wants a commitment! I am assuming it is because Valentine’s Day is next month but I can’t choose. They are all beautiful creatures. Should I just let them all go? Answer:…
My Wife Thinks I’m An Old Dog Who Can’t Learn New Tricks In the Bedroom
Boredom is setting in faSt... any tips for keeping it fresh? Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt has some inner and outer suggestions...
Question: My husband and I are trying to ante up of our sex life. But that old dog only knows so many tricks, boredom is setting in fast. Any tips you recommend for keeping it fresh? Answer: First I’m thrilled to hear that you’re committed to enhancing your sex life! It’s quite common to fall…
My Wife And I No Longer Sleep In The Same Bed
Please don't tell me I am missing some sort of red flag! Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt says the status quo has changed...
Question: Should I be concerned if my wife and I are sleeping in separate beds? She said it was because she couldn’t sleep well. Yet we always slept in the same bed when we were first dating and when we were first married. Nothing has changed at least I don’t think it has. Please don’t…
I Don’t Want To Talk About Money With My Husband!
"I don't want to know how he spends his money or I'll have an OPINION about it!" Allana Pratt Intimacy Expert cautions that what you resist... persists...
Question: My husband and I differ completely on finances in the household. He wants me to ask him about money, but I refuse as I’ve been told time and time again that the biggest fight between couples is money. I don’t want to know how he spends his money because then I’m going to have…
I Love My Kids (But Hate My Wife)
I married her because she was pregnant. I just can't take it anymore. Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt has some straight advice...
Question: I love my kids (but I hate my wife). I tried to be the better man and marry her when she was pregnant. I stayed because because I believe in raising children in a two-person household and I would give my life for my children but if my wife was hit by a bus…
My wife makes everything ELSE a priority but me!
I pick fights just to let her know I exist! Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt wonders if this makes her wish you WOULDN'T exist!
Question: My wife puts everything else before me. I pick fights just so she knows I still exist. We are both frustrated but we love each other and want this to work. I need to show her that I am just as much of a priority as everything else in her life! Answer: i’m so sorry…
Should I Put Up With His Passive Aggressiveness Or Leave?
Should I accept his character or walk away? Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt cautions it's not as simple as that...
Question: Hello Coach Allana, I realize you likely gets dozens of relationship questions and just wanted to pose a situation to see if you had any feedback to share. I am struggling with how conflict is dealt with in my current situation. We have had a 2 year rocky relationship for numerous reasons (mostly because my…
I always attract the WRONG kind of woman for me!
I just can't change attracting the wrong kind of woman for me! Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt has a humbling invitation...
Question: I tried everything to break this so called cycle. I have looked deep within, I have listened to my “little me”, I have even tried dating the opposite of who I normally date but no matter what, I am still attracted to the same type of woman! I just can’t change that. There’s just…
My sister’s 18 and having a baby. Is her life ruined?
"Our mom passed and it'a my job to make sure she goes 'all the way'." Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt wonders if...
Question: My baby sister is having a little boy which is amazing, except she just turned 18! She got married when she was 17 and while we are all happy for her, I can see a gigantic banner flying over her life say “Life ruined!” I feel so judgmental but she was supposed to be…
I’m Having Feelings for my Friend, and My Lover’s not Happy!
I might do something I regret, but I don't want to leave my friend high and dry. Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert advises...
Question: Recently, a dear male friend of mine went through a horrible breakup. We have been best friends for years so of course I have been there for him. What wasn’t expecting is that I am starting to have feelings for him. It may be sympathy as I am seeing him be extremely vulnerable but…
I Just Want To Be Able To TALK To My Husband
"The list of triggers words between myself and my husband can stretch a football field." Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt wonders what's the root cause...
Question: When two people have two completely different styles of communicating, how do they find a common ground/language to talk to each other? I feel like the list of triggers words between myself and my husband can stretch from end to end on a football field. Once everything dies down, we understand the miscommunication. I…
My Wife Doesn’t Trust Me With Our Youngest Child
"I am so paranoid of doing something wrong and try so hard to prove I am just as good of a parent as she is." Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt GETS IT and advises...
Question: My wife does not trust me with our youngest child. She always hovers when we are together and if something happens when she is away (say she has to step away to use the bathroom), I never hear the end of it. I am so paranoid of doing something wrong and try so hard…