My best tool for making sense of my life doesn’t work for relationships. So, I had to figure something else out.
The Inconvenient Truth: Lessons From a Failed Marriage
Realizing that even the simplest connection is now unattainable leads me to ponder what actually existed in the first place.
Realizing that even the simplest connection is now unattainable leads me to ponder what actually existed in the first place.
The First Date That Came Too Late: Lessons From a Failed Marriage
Taking one more chance to see if anything is salvageable in my marriage seemed like a good idea at the time.
Taking one more chance to see if anything is salvageable in my marriage seemed like a good idea at the time.
Staying Present: The Secret for Healthy Polyamorous Relationships
Stepping off the relationship escalator is not enough. Sometimes we recreate what we are trying to leave behind.
Stepping off the relationship escalator is not enough. Sometimes we recreate what we are trying to leave behind.
The Land of Hard Truths: Lesson From a Failed Marriage
Freedom was always within my reach. I just didn’t know to look for it!
Freedom was always within my reach. I just didn’t know to look for it!
You Aren’t Who You Used to Be: Lessons From a Failed Marriage
There is no going back to who you once were. Even if you could, would you want to?
There is no going back to who you once were. Even if you could, would you want to?
The Price of Wanting: Lessons From a Failed Marriage
Everything comes at a cost. What are you willing to pay?
Everything comes at a cost. What are you willing to pay?
The Absence of Boundaries: Lessons From a Failed Marriage
When your spouse says “YES” to everything but you, eventually your relationship will pay the price.
When your spouse says “YES” to everything but you, eventually your relationship will pay the price.
Telling the Truth and Testing Courage
It seems simple enough — to tell the truth — but the reality of that is much harder than it seems it should be most days.
It seems simple enough — to tell the truth — but the reality of that is much harder than it seems it should be most days.
The Gift of Time
His simple question leads to an important discovery about the connection between a ticking clock and love.
His simple question leads to an important discovery about the connection between a ticking clock and love.
Weaponizing Intimacy: Lessons From a Failed Marriage
The availability of something in your arsenal does not mean it should be used. Some choices are final.
The availability of something in your arsenal does not mean it should be used. Some choices are final.
Money Matters: Lessons from a Failed Marriage
Unwinding the financial tangle of marriage reveals all of our fault lines. Will our intent to be amicable survive the war?
Unwinding the financial tangle of marriage reveals all of our fault lines. Will our intent to be amicable survive the war?
Our End Started in Our Beginning: Lessons from a Failed Marriage
The signs were there from the start. It just took three decades to understand the implications.
The signs were there from the start. It just took three decades to understand the implications.
Deciding He Was Trustworthy Changed Everything
How I chose trust.
Deciding he was trustworthy changed everything.
Attraction to Others and Committed Relationships: Can They Coexist?
They already do, but honesty usually pays the price.
They already do, but honesty usually pays the price.
Wedding Wonderings: Lessons From a Failed Marriage
Maybe we need a better beginning to get to a better ending.
Maybe we need a better beginning to get to a better ending.